I have to admit, it took a long time for me to feel brave enough to admit to my wife that one of my all-time sexual fantasies|Sex Fantasies was for her to use a strap-on|Strap on sex fantasy with me.

I can't say she wasn't alarmed 'Oh, my God, does this mean you're gay?' But after a long discussion, she came to accept that no, I wasn't - so we bought the powerlock harness with cock and balls|Powerlock harness with cock'n balls - from a sex shop, not Eden Fantasies, but it was this exact brand and Eden Fantasies sell it for almost fifteen dollars less, so I'd recommend getting it from them!

I chose this particular brand because the cock looked big (and we men are obsessed with size.) I also liked the realistic shape of it, the balls and the Jel-Lee material, which seemed realistic.

When my wife first strapped it on, the material panty harness fitted snuggly and she looked pretty damn sexy, bouncing on the bed with a big, hard cock between her legs.

Having absolutely no experience of this sort of thing, we tried sex the way we normally have anal - with the positions reversed, of course. I wedged a couple of pillows under my hips and lay on my front, ass in the air.

Wifey squirted Durex Play More lube|Durex Play more review between my buttocks and rubbed it into the shaft and then went straight for gold - she didn't want to stretch my ass out with her fingers first, so just aimed for the 'starfish' and pushed.

I'll tell you what - I have a LOT more sympathy for all the times she's told me to 'take it slow'. It was painful and I bit into the pillow until my ass eventually went 'pop' and the shaft started sliding into me.

She hadn't used enough lube and I'd NEVER had anything that big in my ass before (damn me for having to choose the biggest dick I could find.) Wifey began very enthusiastically thrusting in and out and for the first few minutes, I was in agony.

After a while, the pain stopped and it just felt very, very weird and intense. The sensation was amazing - I could feel her tickle my prostate when she thrust in all the way - and the feeling of her soft skin against my backside and her nipples tickling my back was very sexy. After about five minutes, I started getting really into it and thrust back against her.

Unfortunately Wifey was a little uncomfortable because she's not normally doing the 'pounding'. She asked to stop and reluctantly I let her (the cock felt amazing sliding and 'popping' out of my butt.)

We finished in the opposite way we'd started - with her on her hands and knees and me banging into her from behind (although in her pussy, not her ass.) I was very turned on and the feeling around my backdoor was still very intense. I came inside her within minutes.

Since then, we haven't had a 'rematch' since Wifey admits she has to be in a particular 'mood' to get into the idea (and now she's eight months pregnant, not capable of fucking my ass without her beautiful belly getting in the way.)

That being said, the powerlock harness with cock and balls is still in our toy chest and I can't wait for a chance to use it again (I'm hoping she'll fuck me and give me the famous 'reach around' at the same time.)