Plus size fit, "butt"...
Basically, this was worth a try and hasn't turned me off of potential harness play. It has given me something to compare to and let us know as a couple what we are really looking for in a good harness set up.
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Pros
Can fit a plus size, 2 dildos to try
Cons
length of dildos, flexible rings
The hubster and I decided to select this as our first harness for some pegging play after shopping around. We thought it would be a good one to try as our first because "beginner" is in the name and reviews and ratings seemed promising. We have tried it a couple of times and just can't seem to get the hang of it.
I am a big girl and this harness can fit a plus size waist but even with several adjustments it just didn't seem to sit right. When it was situated to be usable it was not comfortable for me nor attractive to him. When he tried it on and adjusted it to fit there was a lot of excess on all the straps. If only one partner will wear it or if both are about the same size then I am sure the nylon straps could be easily trimmed, but with us, we had to find a way to "get them out of the way."
We liked the fact that it came with 2 dildo sizes but both seemed a little on the short side. Yea! for non-porous easy to clean and disinfect silicone (be sure to use water based lubes). I also would have preferred a metal ring. The plush velvety padded part is great for looks and does feel good but when lube and bodily fluids are involved its not very easy to clean up. The vibrator is cute but it didn't add much to the experience for us. I still gave it 3 Vrooms because it is a strong lil' guy but when it is in the pocket the vibration gets dampened a lot. He couldn't feel it and although I could feel the vibration it wasn't very strong on the giving or receiving end.
After I finally got all strapped up, lubed up (water based), excited and ready to go the smaller dildo kept pulling free of the harness. The diameter was right for him but the length left us wanting. When we switched and he was a adjusted, strapped up, lubed up (water based), and we were all excited again, we still had issues with the length of the included dildos.
I am a big girl and this harness can fit a plus size waist but even with several adjustments it just didn't seem to sit right. When it was situated to be usable it was not comfortable for me nor attractive to him. When he tried it on and adjusted it to fit there was a lot of excess on all the straps. If only one partner will wear it or if both are about the same size then I am sure the nylon straps could be easily trimmed, but with us, we had to find a way to "get them out of the way."
We liked the fact that it came with 2 dildo sizes but both seemed a little on the short side. Yea! for non-porous easy to clean and disinfect silicone (be sure to use water based lubes). I also would have preferred a metal ring. The plush velvety padded part is great for looks and does feel good but when lube and bodily fluids are involved its not very easy to clean up. The vibrator is cute but it didn't add much to the experience for us. I still gave it 3 Vrooms because it is a strong lil' guy but when it is in the pocket the vibration gets dampened a lot. He couldn't feel it and although I could feel the vibration it wasn't very strong on the giving or receiving end.
After I finally got all strapped up, lubed up (water based), excited and ready to go the smaller dildo kept pulling free of the harness. The diameter was right for him but the length left us wanting. When we switched and he was a adjusted, strapped up, lubed up (water based), and we were all excited again, we still had issues with the length of the included dildos.
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Congratulations on your first review. Your opinion is well stated. Do you think this would work better for you and your husband with a longer dildo? Your plus size may require a little more length in order to work well. Good luck!
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Thank you Yes, I think a longer dildo would be a "big" help. I have been shopping around for one... Maybe I will make Santa's Naughty list and get one!
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Sorry you had issues with the length of the dildos. That is disappointing.
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Thanks for reviewing
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Thanks for the review! I've been considering this one.
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Thank you for the helpful reviews
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nice review
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thanks for the review!
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Nice review, thanks
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Thank you for sharing.
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thx
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Nice review. Thank you
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Nice review on a great kit
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Thanks.
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