From a male's point of view this product is great!! Your partner has a choice as they don't have to use the anal plug or the vaginal plug and the strap on still won't slide about as it is secured to the wearer like a g-string with a buckle system. So if there is a chance for weight gain no worry!!

I have had this item used on me and enjoyed it greatly (and still enjoy this product 10 yrs later) and I have seen this item used on ladies to (at a play party) when I have let my partner have her cake and ice cream too. And every partner I have had has told me they love the harness as it is adjustable (up to a 45 inch waist) and it would not be to hard to create a couple of extension piece for the harness.

The anal and vaginal plugs can be used separately as well. And the vaginal plug can even be used as a large anal plug too (and yes, my toys get covered in condoms). So in essence you are getting three toys in one here.

The Vac-U-Lock system is great as you can get a variety of sizes other than what comes standard in this kit at reasonable prices so its even possible to have a personal set of attachments just for yourself and a set for your partner as well.

Clean up is a breeze as all of the attachments can be removed from their base, put them in a dishwasher (except the leather harness) and in an hour take them out dry them off, place in a zip lock bag and seal, wipe down the harness and you're done.

You pretty much get more than what you are paying for when purchasing this item!!

Like I said on the product's webpage I have had this item for 9 - 10 years now and its a favorite of mine. This was the first and only strap on I have purchased and it was intended for pegging me. I have had girlfriends ask to borrow this at play partys so that they could play with their girlfriends.