This is definitely a starter harness intended for folks just curious about strap-on sex. It's not great, but it does the job. It's compatible with most dildos, it washes easily, and it's fairly cheap. This toy is also compatible with the Feeldoe, unlike most other harnesses. So even though it slides around a lot, it's a really good buy IF you're not sure strap-on play is your thing.

If you're very interested in strap-on sex and expect it to be part of your usual sex repertoire, I would not buy this harness.

This toy uses nylon straps and metal o-rings, so it's washing-machine safe. This is really nice since the position of the straps puts them right in the line of fire when things get slippery. When washing I always put it in a dedicates bag or a tied-up old t-shirt to prevent it from becoming a tangled mess. The metal O-rings feel quite cold on skin, so if this isn't your thing it might be a good idea to invest in some rubber O-rings. I really like the cold feel, so it wasn't a problem.

The Bare as you dare harness moves around way too much. The buckles are slippery enough that I usually have to tie knots behind them to keep the harness from loosening while we play. It feels very insecure during sex and the front O-ring usually drifts about 6 inches from where I'd want it to be by the time we're finished. It feels a bit like driving with a loose steering wheel.

In addition to the poor design, I also didn't like the fit. The G-string idea is cool, but it feels very odd the way it shifts in my butt and in between my lips while we play. Even if I have it adjusted on the tightest possible setting it manages to twist and chafe. Imagine wearing a rope-harness made out of an old seat-belt and you'd be about there. In addition to all the moving around, one of the buckles lands right on my clit, and not in a good way. One way you can get around the pinching is by wearing underwear under the harness, but still causes some severe and occasionally uncomfortable camel-toe. The twisting camel-toe straps and the looseness of the ring causes, the worst thing about this harness, hair pulls.

I'm pretty sure my neighbors could hear me scream when it claimed its first few strands.

Since I bought this toy out of curiosity, it worked perfectly for what I wanted it to do. I discovered I love strap-on sex! All the pinching and chafing makes it sound like it was a horrible experience but I really had a great time. If I hadn't found this cheap harness, I might not have tried strap-on sex for quite a while longer and that's just what this toy is good for.

If you're not sure if you're going to like it, this toy is an excellent investment. If you don't like it, it's not the end of the world.

This is kind of a mediocre harness but it works great with the Feeldoe. Although the Feeldoe is supposed to be harness-free, I sometimes need the extra control when things get really busy. Bare as you dare gives me all the support I need and it fits the Feeldoe perfectly. There aren't very many harnesses out there that will fit the Feeldoe, let alone for this price, and using it with the Feeldoe was SO MUCH FUN! It made our strap-on play so much more intense and it made the gender-play aspect of it more intense because I could actually feel what I was doing.