My partner and I originally purchased this wonderful dong with the intentions of using it mostly for oral purposes - he enjoys sucking the occasional girly-cock, and I sometimes enjoy wearing one. However, we quickly discovered it was a bit too firm and girthy for that use.

Fortunately, our VIP has found a renewed and very, very pleasurable life as a vaginal toy. The firm curve hits my g-spot so, so perfectly, and the great girth makes me feel very filled up. I have even paired this with anal toys and, dear God, was the incredible fullness amazing.

I would not necessarily recommend this dong for a beginner in either department - I generally can't go straight for the VIP for vaginal play, and I've yet to successfully play with it anally, though it is on the list for the near future. It wears wonderfully in my SpareParts Joque harness, thanks to the large testicles.

My partner and I generally wash the VIP in the dishwasher - top rack only. It is also boilable. Being that it's 100% silicone, it is not compatible with any silicone- or oil-based lubricants. This unfortunately excludes most conventional lubricated condoms, so beware if you're intending to use it with a condom (we like to do that with anal play, just in case).

The surface texture of the VIP silicone is a bit different from most silicone toys; it's almost spongy, and it's not sleek and smooth. Consequently, it can feel almost a bit rough if you're not quite warmed up to it. It is also a HUGE lint, dust, and cat hair magnet, and the texture just amplifies that.

I would absolutely rate the VIP five stars if it weren't so frustratingly difficult to keep clean and lint-free when not in use. I love its size and firmness, and its hygienic silicone, but the rough surface is just too frustrating for me. Sorry Tantus!