This is my first real strap-on harness. I had heard great things about the functionality of the brand. I figured I'd start out with the opportunity to get this harness with the plug, and then move on to getting other attachments. I chose this particular harness for the crotchless feature, and that it is unisex. BONUS!

So, let's be honest, I didn't really know what I was doing and we did a few practice runs. I was intimidated, only because of being new at anal sex in general, much less the one wielding the stick.

Our first step was just to each try it on. It mentions in the ad that it fits up to a 44 inch waist. We are both small framed and had a difficult time getting it adjusted properly. With teamwork, it fit us both just fine.

The next time I tried putting it on myself, I ended up needing help to get a functional fit. At which point it functioned very well. It was slightly difficult to keep in, due to the small size of the plug. I enjoyed watching it go in and out, to my surprise. I am looking forward to watching a realistic attachment doing the same. He ended up getting on top. This gave him more control and took away my anxiety factor of worrying about hurting him. I had not pictured this before, and WOW, what a turn on.

My man said he thought the harness looked very sexy on me. From the backside, it is very attractive even though it is not a thong.

We had a good time. I learned new things about what turns me on, and what turns him on. I had been hesitant, and now I can't wait to explore further. Maybe even get a "blowjob," once I get my 6 or 7 inch realistic dildo to attach to it.

Not enough experience with this yet. I need to place an order for powder and at least one realistic dildo to get a full appreciation and opinion on product. This purchase is a step in the direction for truly deciding how I feel about different aspects of anal play.

I never got around to ordering attachments. I was looking forward to getting to experience this type of sexual play more in depth.

Without a partner, what would I use it for? I don't even know what I should do with it. I plan on playing solo for a very long time. I also can't imagine anyone else I would want to push my boundaries with.

Sorry for being so personal.

Back to business...in looking at other harnesses, I would have to say this one is actually attractive. Some are unattractive, others downright make me giggle.

If I'm going to do gender play, I want it to be as realistic as possible.