This is a very good starter kit for first-time couples. If you have never tried anal, this set-up is a pretty good start. The toy is small, so it does not hurt going in, but if you really want to enjoy the experience, I would recommend buying an extra dildo to use. Preferably a bigger one. The harness is very versatile and fits a lot of different types and sizes of dildos. My wife could not figure out the straps right away, but once she got the hang of it, she enjoyed herself pretty well. I will admit that she enjoyed this set a lot more than I did in the beginning. Now it is one of our favorite accessories when we go away for our special trips.

My wife was a little uncomfortable when it came to introducing this harness kit to her. She has a very high sex drive, but I am the one who tends to be a bit more for exploring and adding things to the bedroom. We have had anal sex before, but it hurts her so not that much. She wanted to start with me bending over so she could do me like I do her. After getting the hang of it, she was pretty into it and started pulling my hair and asking if I like it. I did actually. We tried it in different positions, and there was really no awkwardness except that the dildo sits up higher than a regular penis would, so there are some slight adjustment issues there. Moving on to bigger toys were not a problem since the O-ring is what is holding the dildo in place. There is no taking it all apart or undoing any straps or buttons. The ease of use made it all the more fun.