I would recommend the Inked Restraints Tattoo Harness for any user looking for a good harness. It would be great for gender play as it can be hidden under your clothing. It is also easy to figure out. This was my first harness and it was very easy to use.

Material

Nylon makes up a majority of this harness so it does have some texture to it. Personally, the texture has never bothered or chaffed me. The padding on this harness has a nice, soft texture and keeps the harness from rubbing. I love the designs of dragons !!!!

I have never personally used it in water, but it is washable. The fabric or clasps may tighten if used in water. The straps may also cause chaffing if the product is used in water, so use caution.

The adjustable straps also work nicely if more then one person will be using the harness. Additionally, if your weight fluctuates you do not have to worry about it affecting your ability to use this harness. It is very flattering as well.

It is very low maintenance and easy to care for. I just toss it in the washer with the rest of my dark clothing and hang it up to dry (the washer is set on delicate and the water is cold). Spot treatments can be done between washes. I wash it about every 3-4 uses but it can be washed more often. I remove the O rings and wash those by hand as to not tear them up and it allows for more through cleaning.

It makes me feel sexy wearing it cause I love pink :-) and the tattoo design is awesome. With a pink or black strap-on dildo it looks great. I even laid down with it on like if I would be straddled and it stays in place pretty good :-)

Overall it is a very nice harness. The look the feel of it all together is something I would highly recommend for partner play and I love that it is adjustable too!!!