This harness is, clearly, for strap on sex. However I feel this would also be a wonderful harness for gender play and packing. This is slim, comfortable, discreet and doesn't show under regular clothing. The lines it gives are no more noticeable than a panty line, but it's still strong enough to hold up under hard play. I wouldn't use this in water as I can easily envision the straps chafing when wet. It's small and compact so it travels well. It fits in even tiny purses.

I liked the nylon straps, since they were firm but not scratchy like many straps of woven nylon tend to be. The O-rings snapped right out when I wanted to remove them to clean them, and the rest of it (the straps) got tossed in the washer with the rest of my clothing and came out fine. I didn't put it through the dryer because of the plastic bits on the straps to adjust them. The straps are a little thin, and I can imagine them cutting in a bit on larger users, though I am not a twig and I didn't have any problems. The straps had no smell which was a major plus.

I think this harness is well made. The straps are comfortable and adjustable and don't loosen with play. It's compatible with any dildo that is O-ring compatible. The only issue I had was the dildo I was using fell out of it, however it was the smallest compatible width for the O-ring and I think this is easily corrected with a larger dong. I liked how this harness was designed along minimal lines since it becomes easier to hide it in a purse or under clothing.

I liked how it fit. The toy rests along the hip and it fit me well. The straps are comfortable and fully adjustable to fit a wide range of shapes and sizes. Even the strap under the crotch adjusts to position the O-ring higher or lower depending on preference.

This worked out well for me and for my partner. The straps didn't loosen up while we were using it at all. The only problem we had was the toy slipped out once, but I tightened the harness a little bit and we didn't have that problem again. He liked that it didn't look intimidating, I liked that it stayed put and wasn't big and bulky. The toy is easy to adjust and slides on and off just like a thong does.