I've been an anal play lover for about 5 years now. Early on, I reserved such playtime as a solo experience. Over time I became more comfortable involving a partner, which initially just involved plug wear during intercourse or mutual masturbation. Eventually, I wanted the sensation of being more submissive, something that I fantasized about while playing solo as I started to experiment with larger toys that prompted those naughty thoughts.

I selected the Fantasy Fetish Elite harness as the tool to aid me in submitting to my wife for some pegging play. I specifically select it because I intended to use the Randy silicone dildo with it, which I knew was wider than the advertised diameter of the included ring. However, the o-ring isn't solid so I figured I could stretch it around the dildo. This worked as intended, though it took some coordination to get such a wide dildo through the ring. After several uses, the ring hasn't shown any notable wear from such stretching, so I am pleased to have not caused damage by using the product beyond its intended limits.

The fabric of the harness itself is also durable and has stood up to regular usage and washings. There's more material than needed in the back and it seems like the designers couldn't decide between a full g-string back or a more covering brief. I think a full brief would have made more sense, though it would have detracted from the visual appearance somewhat. The ample fabric in the front is helpful, given that plenty of lube should be used during anal play and the act of one partner enthusiastically thrusting into another is bound to cause things to get a little messy with all that lube. It also provides a large enough surface to prevent the base of a dildo from causing unpleasant rubbing on the giving partner. The base on the Randy dildo that I used is quite wide, since it can be used as a suction dildo.

My wife and I used this for the first time while on a trip. After setting the mood with a soak in a hot tub and me ensuring I was plenty clean in the rear, we retired to the bed. It wasn't particularly graceful forcing the dildo through the o-ring, but I knew I was using a larger toy than the product was intended for. Once the toy and I were sufficiently lubricated, I slowly backed into my wife and enjoyed the sensation of being the little spoon for once. Since the Randy dildo is rather short, it took some practice to get ourselves in the best position. Once we found that position I was able to enjoy the stretching, fullness and prostate stimulation of being pegged, while I stroked myself to climax.