I think the best use for this harness is to be used as a showpiece or maybe a gag gift. It was very impressive to see right out of the box. The dong is made out of a very nice rubber material -- the perfect amount of stiffness. It has very strong vibrations. I was getting hard just thinking about my wife taking control for the first time. As far as the harness goes, I think it is made for a very big woman. The straps are so long and made of a cheap plastic. I don't think this harness would work well for anyone of an average woman's size.

Cleanup for the Venus Bumble Bee strap-on would be pretty simple, I guess. I wouldn't actually know how to clean it because, after just one attempt to use it, we threw it away in the trash. But if we were going to clean it, I would have just washed it with soap and water, being careful not to get the cords wet that connect the dildo to the vibrating controller. And you store it in the trash, never to be found again.

I actually didn't get to see how it was packaged because the wife purchased this while I was out of town. She sent me pictures of her wearing it so I would be hot and bothered when I got home.

This was going to be my first attempt at being pegged, and it was a total fail.

The wife and I have talked about trying a strap-on for some time now. Well, one day I was out of town and she went to the naughty store and bought our first strap-on. When she got home, she pulled the toy out of the box and started taking pictures of herself wearing the strap-on. She sent me the picture and, oh my God, was that hot and so unexpected. I wanted to come home right then and there; but, alas, I was unable to. So I had to wait, just thinking of what she was going to do to me.

When I finally got home a couple of days later, it was finally time to let my wife take control. My wife and I were getting pretty hot and heavy when she said, "Are you ready for me?" Oh boy, was I ready. We pulled the strap-on out of the toy chest, and I was a little bit intimidated by the girth of it, but very eager to try. (The Venus is not really big at all. I think most guys think, "Oh no, that's not going to fit! But, to our surprise, it normally has no problem fitting and is very enjoyable.) She put her legs into the straps to discover that there was plenty of room, and she adjusted the straps as much as she could -- and it was still too loose. So I had to grab the straps and pull them behind her lower back and tie a knot in them just so it would stay in place. That was kind of a mood killer for a few moments.

Okay, so she got me all lubed up and ready (lube is very important). I positioned myself on all fours, and she placed the head of the toy at my asshole and started to push slowly. It just kept slipping all over the place. So we adjusted our position and attempted again. After a couple more attempts of insertion, she started to get irritated by the clitoral stimulator part of the harness. She said it was too ridged and uncomfortable. She said that the main nub that was supposed to stimulate her clit was actually starting to cause her pain. So we actually got a small washcloth and put it over her pussy so that it didn't hurt anymore. So, of course, now all of her pleasure is gone. We should have quit right there, but we didn't. So we finally got a little bit more than the head in and tried to pump a little when, of course, it just slipped out again. So we tried with me on my back and her on her knees, sort of. We finally got the toy in, but it was me that was moving up and down. I only got to move up and down a couple of times before, of course, it fell out again. And me moving up and down was not what we wanted. She wanted to take control and dominate me. So we just quit. Hell, we never even really got to try out the vibrations part of the toy. All the problems we had were from the straps not fitting, to the rough nubs that were supposed to stimulate her clit, and to the dildo being too flexible to really get anything going without actually holding onto the toy itself. The mood was over. We never even finished having sex that night. We had a bunch of laughs with our adventure and ended up tossing it in the trash after the first attempt. There was one pro to this toy: when I was checking the Venus out before we had our fiasco, the vibrations seemed to be very strong, even though I never really got to enjoy them.

So, in closing, I do not recommend this product to anyone.