My pink Mia-Z harness is a thing of beauty. The colors are vivid, the leather is soft, and the design is ingenious. The harness sits low on the hips and holds a dildo low enough on the body to stimulate the clit while thrusting. Surprisingly, to me at least, one of the best features of this harness is the ability to hold a second dildo inside of the harness wearer.

I admit that I was skeptical about the usefulness of the second, internal dildo feature. I had never felt bored while fucking my boyfriend with our first harness, so I just didn’t see the point. My lover, however, insisted that it would be “hot” for him to know that I was being stimulated while I fucked him. I was happy to give it a try, so we ordered the Mia-Z.

And, Oh My Goodness, I’ve rarely been so happy to be wrong in my life. The internal dildo feature is awesome. I cannot explain the physics of how the harness holds the second dildo inside the vagina because every time I look at the harness, it looks like it shouldn’t really work, but I assure you it is in fact possible and very easy to execute once you have the harness in hand.

The other awesome feature of the Mia-Z is its adjustability. I have, shall we say, generous hips and so I was concerned about fit while selecting a harness. It wouldn’t do to invest in an expensive sex toy that I couldn’t comfortably use. No problem here, as this harness is manufactured with plenty of length to the adjustable leather waist and leg straps. If you are tiny, you might even want to trim the straps down to keep them out of your way. Other than that the harness is designed to fit just about any body type simply by pulling or loosening three leather straps through three D-rings fasteners. Adjustment takes a few minutes the first time you put it, but then you are good to go.

All the good things being said, there are a few flaws/problems with this harness. Mainly, the hidden side of this harness which rests against the wearer’s skin is not finished. The suede inner side of this harness has a tendency to pill up and also, as unfinished leather tends to do, it absorbs moisture. I can’t strictly comment on how this might affect use for vaginal penetration, but I can say with authority that anal penetration means lube, lube, and more lube.

All this lube means that the Mia-Z is often left a ridiculously sticky mess with no convenient way to clean it. I can’t tell you how often, I’ve found myself wishing that I could just wash this harness off in the sink with my silicone dildos. Leather can be wiped down with a damp cloth, which is my usual mode of cleaning. It can also be cleaned with leather soap, but this is a pain for everyday.

Basically, I often wonder if I wouldn’t be better off with some sort of synthetic material which would be more washable. On the other hand, synthetic is not nearly as comfortable and sexy as leather, so I guess you pick you demons.

Overall, the Mia-Z is a quality harness with an ingenious design. If you don’t mind trading a little extra maintanance for the comfort and appeal of leather it may be the perfect harness.

Possibly the sexist thing about this harness is just how much it turns my lover on. He’s always trying to get me to wear it and fuck him. I find that the two included o-rings, one rubber and one metal, do an excellent job of holding most of our dildo’s in place. I like to start out with our medium Silk dildo to warm up his ass for things to come. With our old harness, I would switch out to the large Silk dildo, but with the Mia-Z I’ve been commandeering that one for myself. Fortunately, my lover still finds it hot that I’m being stimulated while I fuck him, so he doesn’t complain that I have to warm him up further with creative use of plugs and fingers.

Generally speaking the main event is a good long fucking with the curvy Squirt dildo. The prostate stimulation from the curvy dildo makes him moan deliciously. For special occasions, when he’s really in the mood for a pounding, we break out the giant General dildo. This 2”-diameter dildo, is the upper limit of what the Mia-Z can handle. The General barely fits through the hole in the leather and we have to use a separately purchased o-ring to secure it in place. While I wouldn’t try anything bigger, the Mia-Z does an admirable job of supporting this ridiculously large and heavy dildo.

My lover and I share a mutual goal of learning to come just from the stimulation of the fucking alone. My lover tells me he thinks he may be able to come from the prostate stimulation, and I feel pretty good about my chances with the Silk dildo inside of me and the stimulation from the base of the Squirt on my clit as I fuck him. We have yet to succeed, but I think that with a grueling practice schedule, we might just get there!