The harness will fit a wide variety of waist sizes. The three-point construction is very uncomfortable; the harness is basically a nylon-webbing g-string. Because the harness moved around as I worked the dildo, I had to put lube in my butt to prevent painful chafing. This was only somewhat effective.

The harness can be used only with the single diameter of dildo. Thus, if you find you want to size up as you gain experience or size down to accommodate another orifice, you will will have to buy a new harness. It is easier to adjust for sharing between partners than a 4-point harness, and you can easily tighten it while wearing by pulling on the hanging straps. If you share with a much larger/smaller partner, you can't trim the straps as much and will have long straps hanging off the sides.

The dildo is very nice. We threw the harness away but keep the dildo for use in-hand or in a different harness. It is nice looking and a nice size for people who are girth-sensitive. However, the base is very small, which means it will pop out of *other* harnesses with vigorous use; it stays in the supplied harness just fine. The dildo included in our set was of a more standard (less pink)shade of purple.

The set is washable, although not as easy to clean as leather which can be wiped down between uses. The fabric of the harness looks gross after use if you don't wet-wash it (like the look of stained bedding), which can be problematic if you are in a dorm or in your parents' house or have roommates.

I would not feel comfortable sharing this harness with a non-fluid-bound user because of the relative difficulty in cleaning. I suppose a run through the hot cycle could get it fairly clean, but the item has a tendency to rub the butt hole as well as soak up fluid on the front. It would not be easy to sanitize by wipe-down like a smooth leather item.