All in all, the harness is wonderful, but I would only recommend you buy this for the harness, and not the dildo.

I think if the attachment provided was a better material it would be perfect. I bought some extra attachments for the harness. It is a great product and stretches to accommodate plus size individuals. It does require some extra cleaning and care. The box is not very appealing, but the product is good. I think it was worth the price. I would have paid a lot more if the dildo was silicone.

This is a great harness for a beginner, but the dildo it comes with is definitely not for someone just starting to experience anal pleasure.

A welcome addition to any collection of gender benders, this strap is quality and durable. The best part - it's plus sized friendly!

I would buy the Leather Ring Harness for the harness but not necessarily the dildo. The ease of getting into the harness without having to adjust straps and overall comfort are both big pluses. The non-adjustable O-ring is a disadvantage for using dongs with a smaller diameter than one and five eights inch.