Kneel to the Mistress!

The Mistress is one of my wife's favorite toys to use on me. It's one of our first and that sentimental value, as well as the amazing orgasms it gives, keep us coming back to it. The ease of maintenance and the safety of the material make it well worth the money you're going to spend if you plan on being serious about the commitment. The toy is durable and holds up well to all environments and will definitely never feel lonely in the toy box!
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Pros
- Good beginner toy
- Easy maintenance
- Safe material
- Looks and feels great
Cons
- Dirt and lint magnet
- Container it comes in is not sturdy
Rating by reviewer:
5
extremely useful review

Use

The Mistress is best suited for a harness with an o-ring compatibility. It fits wonderfully in my wife's harness and when it is well adjusted, it has a good angle for thrusting and penetration.

The Mistress is flared and seems to work well for anal sex for someone who is experienced with the process of pegging. It would be safe to call it a toy for beginners if it wasn't for the slightly thicker head that can stretch the unwary quite easily.

This dildo should fit with the smallest o-ring that your harness may have come with as the girth isn't too extreme.
  • Who / How / What
    [ ? ]
    Who might this product be best for? How is it best used? What are the best circumstances or situations for using this product?
    • Couples
    • Solo
  • Where
    [ ? ]
    Where / what types of places can this product be used?
    • Anywhere
    • Tub/shower/pool
  • Body / part areas
    [ ? ]
    What areas on the body can this product be used / what areas does it stimulate best?
    • Anal
    • G-spot
    • P-spot

Material / Texture

The Mistress is made out of silicone so it is very flexible, but has a very solid base to it. It's made for penetrating, so it obviously is firm enough to make that quite easy.

The toy is smooth as silk to the touch both inside and out. This makes for fairly easy penetration anally as my wife and I use it for. It's definitely something you may want to try as a beginner as the added ribs and ridges that more realistic dildos have can add to the girth or rub uncomfortably inside.

It can be used orally though the taste leaves something to be desired. It's a bit rubbery tasting.
    • Harness compatible
    • Not porous at all
    • Smooth

Design / Shape / Size

The Mistress is a sleek design that is thin and phallic shaped and mimics the curve of a penis fairly well. It doesn't have too much weight and give that it dangles downwards and it keeps itself erect and ready to go without the use of hands to guide it much.

The size is wonderful. It's both satisfying and filling, yet small enough to be used for more aggressive or intense thrusting to someone used to it. Sometimes I love to let my wife really go with this toy and I can't really say that for the bigger toys we have.

The dildo also doesn't have too much of a taper in the girth. It is nearly the same size at the base as it is below the head, so this can be a much more suitable feel to a beginner. This is a great toy for someone looking for something more phallic, yet scared off by the enormous, veined toys that seem unsettling and large.
    • Beginner
    • Partner play

Performance

The Mistress performs very well in the heat of sex. It fits very well in our harness and once it it secured and tightened properly, my wife doesn't really need to use her hands other than to guide it in.

The Mistress is one of my favorite toys due to the ease in which it fits, and the ability to take it in multiple positions without worry of it being uncomfortable. My wife definitely loves that as well and enjoys hitting my prostate from all sorts of angles.
    • Comfortable
    • Easy to use

Care and Maintenance

The Mistress, like all Vixen Creations, is extremely easy to care for. It is dishwasher safe and wipes down very easily with toy cleaning supplies. I suggest boiling it after each use to destroy any harmful bacteria if you plan on sharing the toy. Condoms can also be used to make clean up a little less tedious.

Do not use anything other than water-based lubricants on the toy as some can be abrasive to the material and cause damage to it.

We like to store it in the container it came with. Though it takes up a bit of room, it makes for a nice way to keep the toy from gathering dust or getting covered in hair and lint. We do have a silk bag we use for travel from time to time.
    • Easy to clean
    • Easy to store

Packaging

The toy comes in a fairly large cylindrical tube that supports the toy and also displays it. This kind of makes it a little difficult to store at times and the lid can be a pain to get back on, but it is a very solid storage device as well.
    • Good for storage
    • Not discreet

Experience

My wife and I decided to give this toy a shot as soon as we got it and we were very pleased with the performance.

She had no problems inserting it into the harness and getting it ready for use. The rings and draws kept it very firm and solid the entire time and she did not need to adjust the Mistress for any reason whatsoever during play.

She wanted to try our toy out doggy-style at first and I was a little skittish about the entire process, but the Mistress made me feel comfortable. She made sure to lube up the entire toy and even lubed me up as well before she began to push the toy at my entrance.

I have to admit the feeling was quite intense at first. The toy got in without much of a struggle from either side and it slid right in with all the lubricant. My wife was a bit shocked and admitted she was sorry if she had hurt me, but my moans of pleasure told her otherwise! She couldn't keep her eager little hips idle and was soon giving it to me slow and deep.

The sensation was mind-blowing. The toy easily fit inside and rubbed along my prostate with each thrust she made deep within me. It was definitely something I had never really felt before and I ensured her that she could give me a good pounding if she wanted to. She has a tendency to let herself get caught up in the moment, but other times she is very understanding and slow if things aren't going as planned.

After a good few minutes, she was really letting me have it. I couldn't believe I was taking the entire toy, but her hips slamming into my ass were telling me otherwise. She gave me quite a good railing and I have to admit I was fully satisfied with the Mistress. And the toy
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    Great review! In some pictures, it almost looks like the base of this dildo forms a suction cup. Does it? Or is that just wishful thinking on my part?
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    Awesome review! Thanks
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    This one has been added to my wish list. I just need to find a good plus sized harness for my wife first.
  • Contributor: curious to pegging
    Great review, thank you for taking so much time and thought and being so torough. This looks like the first toy for us as far as hopefully introducing my wife to the world of pegging. I've only gotton wierd looks so far in mentioning the idea to her.
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