My wife and I like to use toys when in the bedroom, and we've started to expand our toolkit. We wanted to get a fun colored realistic dildo that wasn't too big but was a step up from the smaller introductory toys we've been using. "Light My Fire" seemed to fit the bill. My wife enjoys the realistic feel inside her, and the glow in the dark feature is visually stimulating to me as we're using it. We have used the toy by itself, however, the silicone material has allowed us the flexibility to use it in double vaginal penetration. The downside of the double vaginal penetration is the suction cup and balls can get in the way, so positioning, though workable, can be a challenge. Overall, though, this toy meets out bedroom needs for an average-sized dildo.