I have definitely enjoyed this toy, but since we upgraded to a strapless strap-on, we really don't use this one much. I would definitely recommend it for a first strap-on, though!

This item is fantastic because not only does it come with a dildo, you can buy an assortment of dildos and use them with the harness. You can change the O ring for bigger toys. I am in love with ours, so is my husband and our girlfriend.

I am glad we purchased this as our first strap-on, it is easy to use, not scary in any way, and did exactly what we wanted it to do. I love the purple color, and the fact that you can purchase other dildos in various sizes and shapes.

Freakin Love it! This is the best toy I have gotten in a long time. This is second to none when it comes to group play also!

If you are looking for a beginner harness for gender play, then I would definitely suggest the "Jel-lee Strap-On With Harness." It's fun, easy to use, and enjoyable for both parties!

As far as a harness/dildo set goes, it is not the best. This is because the harness is poorly made and will quickly fall apart, the few stars this product did receive are due to the dildo in the kit thick, long, and very satisfying.

The strap-on with harness is definitely worth the money for beginners. For those seriously into gender play, I wouldn't recommend it, but for those just wanting to experiment with this kind of sexual activity, it was excellent.

If you are certain that you (and presumably your partner) are interested in getting a harness/strap on, then I suggest investing your money into something with a better design and quality materials. If however you are just curious, this is a simple way to try it out without putting too much money into it. For the price, it's good to try something new.