Overall, this is a pretty good harness. Both beginners and experienced individuals will find it useful. The dildo that is included is very nice. Not only has it been great with the harness (although I worry about it staying in the harness) but it works very well on its own. The contours create a unique feel and the size and length are excellent for either vaginal or anal play. And being silicone, both pieces are entirely waterproof.

All parts of the Pink Venus are waterproof and easy to clean. (Cleaning methods include top rack of the dishwasher, hand-cleaning, and boiling.) There is no strong scent or flavor to the toy, and the texture is very smooth. The harness is very similar to a pair of high-waisted panties. The front side is scalloped around the thighs, and the hole for the dildo is just a little bit lower than I'd like. It isn't entirely out of place, but slightly awkward. It does feel a little strange to be wearing silicone, but it’s not difficult to ignore, either.

The size of the harness is somewhat questionable, though the silicone does seem very stretchable. It is compatible with any dildo that has a flared base, but I haven't personally tried this one with any other toys. I would worry a bit about the harness tearing if I were of a larger hip and waist size, but the packaging claims to fit up to 37” or just over 3’.

The dildo itself is fairly flexible, while still capable of holding its shape. It seems likely that the toy will outlast the harness.

At a size 10, this harness fit me well, but as before stated, I would hesitate to get it were I a bit wider. The harness can be worn under clothing, as long as the dildo is stored somewhere safe and discreet until needed. A large purse might be a good idea. At 7" length, this dildo will not store well in a small space. But if someone asks, "Is it bigger than a breadbox?" you can safely reply, "No." Though if you decide to store it in your breadbox, don't let random people make sandwiches in your kitchen.

So far, the Pink Venus has performed well. Aside from taking a little time to get the position right, it hasn’t created any problems. I’m still slightly questioning how long the harness will last, but if it goes, I’ll just switch over to a different one – but I would definitely continue to use the dildo.

As for storage, I've been keeping the Pink Venus in a bag that was meant to carry a portable cd player. It's easy enough to hide it in plain sight, but I can also stash the bag under my bed.