I'm not sure I understood everything men feel or what it's like to be a man, but I certainly got this exciting feeling of control and dominance with my female partner, and I absolutely loved it. Honestly, I tried to convince my male partner to also try this. I mean to let me try it on him, but he was too afraid, so I limited the experience to my girlfriend, and it was sooo intense. Alright, she tried it on me too, and that's really, a whole other world, the game changes, really, the power play gets into another dimension.