This toy can be used by couples or for solo play. It's best used for thrusting and comes with a bullet which inserts into the base, turning this toy into a vibrator. You can also use the bullet on the clit while using the toy for thrusting, for a little variation in stimulation. Whether you're on a bed or in the shower, this toy can go with you, but the bullet cannot. The bullet itself is not waterproof, so don't put it under the faucet to clean when finished.

The Mistress Vibe Kit by Vixen Creations is harness compatible and anal safe. It has a widely flared base for both, making it friendly to both genders. Users who enjoy pegging may enjoy this toy, and first time users may enjoy the small and petite design of this dildo. This toy is also travel friendly, and you can take it with you on the go, provided you have a purse or bag to keep it hidden. It is not discreet enough to be left out in the open.

This toy can be used for g-spot or p-spot stimulation, but those who need a lot of pressure placed on it may need to look elsewhere. This toy is slightly floppy.

This toy is made from 100% silicone. The bullet that comes with it is made from an ABS plastic. Both the toy and the vibrator are non-porous, hypo-allergenic, latex and phthalate free. Users with sensitivities should have no problems with this toy. There is a light smell when first opening the toy, but the scent is not on the toy itself or the vibrator, and it is not an overwhelming aroma.

This toy is made to look and feel realistic, and it does. It's very soft and squishy to the touch, and is very bendy as well. There isn't any texture to this toy, so it's not entirely realistic feeling, but the shape of it helps with the realism. This is definitely a beginner's toy, as it's very thin and petite, and is squishy enough that it won't hurt on insertion. The lack of texture also makes it a good beginner toy for either anal or vaginal penetration because there is nothing to overwhelm the user.

People who enjoy pegging will find something to love about this toy, or who are pegging for the first time.

The overall design of this toy is simple. There aren't any textures, and it's phallic in shape. Users who don't like realistic toys may find a nice balance with this one, as it is shaped realistically, but is whimsical in overall design, down to the beautiful swirled turquoise color. The color itself is something beautiful, as it's a solid color, but has lovely swirled and pearlescent undertones. In the light, these tones are more visible.

The toy is very floppy, and very bendable. The material and be squished and twisted, but it's not delicate and won't harm the toy, however, it does make performance a bit under par. The size of it will not appeal to advanced users either. It is a very thin and petite dildo, catering to those who are beginners or who do not like bigger sized toys. This design is perfect for people wanting to try toys for the first time, or for first time anal users.

The measurements for this toy are as follows:

Length: 7"
Insertable length: 6-1/2"
Circumference: 4"
Diameter: 1-1/4"

This toy has a phallic shape, therefore it is anything but discreet. As far as travel goes, this toy can be put in a purse or inside of your luggage as long as it is hidden from prying eyes. If found however, everyone will know what this is used for.

I was not impressed by this toy, as you can tell from the lack of enthusiasm in my reply. It was much too thin for someone who considers themselves an advanced user of toys. The bullet itself has only one speed, and for me it was not worth the time and effort spent on having to remove it to clean it again. Though the vibrations could be felt throughout the toy, they were far too light to stimulate me. The toy was underwhelming as well, and I much prefer girthier toys to this thin one.

However, this toy is great for anal, so it redeemed itself a bit there. It was comfortable for insertion with its tapered head, and became quite slippery with only a little lubricant applied. Though the surface is tacky, and is a lint magnet, this can easily be wiped down with a toy wipe to get rid of all the fuzzies. I believe that this toy could work as a p-spot toy for men. For g-spotting, this toy works, but it is so flimsy that it can't apply the pressure I need to climax.

This toy is harness compatible for those who like pegging or partner play. The bullet may stimulate the wearer more than the one being penetrated, but it's rather weak, so I can't say for sure that it will stimulate at all when thrusting.

The Mistress is easily cleaned due to it being made of silicone. When washing, remember to remove the vibrator portion beforehand. You can wash this toy with hot soapy water, a toy cleaner or wipe, boil it for up to three minutes, put it in the top rack of your dishwasher without detergent, or bleach it in a 10% bleach, 90% water solution. Remember that when washing this toy with soap, cleaner, or bleach to rinse it thoroughly, as these can leave a residue behind. This residue can cause irritation or chemical burns from the bleach.

When boiling or washing this toy in the dishwasher, be careful on removal as the toy may be hot enough to burn the skin due to the silicone retaining heat. Always remember to wash your toys before and after use, or when sharing between partners unless you are fluid bonded. If needed, wipe the bullet down with a toy wipe or damp cloth to clean. When finished cleaning your toy, return it to the plastic cylinder packaging or a Ziploc bag for storage. With proper cleaning and care, your toy can last you a lifetime.

Only water-based lubricants are compatible with this toy. Do not use anything other than water-based as it could react with the material.

Remember to always remove the batteries from the bullet when not in use. To remove or replace the batteries, simply screw off the cap. Inside there is a plastic insert that tells which way the batteries go.

This Vixen Creations toy comes packaged inside of a clear plastic cylindrical container, in which the toy sits upright inside. The bullet's batteries were packed inside of a small plastic bag, while the bullet came loosely packed with the dildo in the container. There's information about the company on the container and states that this toy comes with a lifetime warranty. Packaging is minimal and you can recycle the container, but it is a nice way to keep your toy stored upright and in good condition. There weren't any instructions, but the toy is pretty self explanatory.

The cylindrical container could be wrapped discreetly and no one would ever guess that you're gifting a vibrator. Just remember not to let your close friend or partner open it in front of a crowd if they're easily embarrassed.

My Mistress Vibe Kit came with a defective bullet. The batteries worked in my other vibe of the same kind from my Vibrating Champlette Kit also by Vixen Creations, so I knew it wasn't the batteries. I wasn't impressed that the bullet was defective, or floating around in the container for that matter. The vibrator in my Vibrating Champlette kit came with the bullet inside of a plastic bag like the batteries.