This toy is perfect for use with a strap-on. It can be used for gender bending, with guy or girl and with almost any harness. It's not realistic looking in the least so, if you're a transman looking for something realistic, this may not be the toy for you.

It is an excellent penetrative tool for anal sex, which is how I used the Fetish Fantasy Elite. I imagine it would be effective for vaginal sex also.

It can be used solo. I would argue that, for the price, you should just get a really nice vibrating dildo. The design of this one makes it more effective in a strap-on and as a result it is better used by couples or groups. It does have a suction cup for solo use, but it doesn't seem to cling to tiled surfaces well. I would really recommend sticking with using it for strap-on sex.

The Fetish Fantasy Elite slender vibrating dildo, which I have affectionately named "Batgirl", is made of silicone. The silicone makes it unexciting in terms of texture but easy to use and clean. Silicone will let you stop worrying about sanitation for the long term. The toy is fairly firm, though not entirely inflexible like glass. I would say anyone who has used silicone toys in the past should be comfortable with the texture and feel of the toy.

The design is not terribly innovative or exciting, but it does seem to do the job well. The curves are smooth and unoffensive and should be easy to use for someone new to strap-on toys.

I'm always disappointed by how short strap-on dildos are. I think the biggest letdown I have with this toy is that it is only 7". Since I use it for anal, a longer toy would be nice.

The vibrator is actually embedded in the silicone and the remote is connected by a cord to the base of the toy. The base seems to be glued into place or just has a really ugly looking seam. This concerns me that it's going to come undone. So far it's been okay, but I would still be careful not to grab it by the cord, since that might ruin the cord/base of the toy.

Because it's all connected, it should be travel friendly. I took this on two vacations and I did not have any problems with packing. The one really nice part of the design in terms of the shape, is that condoms (great for safety and cleanup!) are easy to use with it. They tuck down around the bottom and don't threaten to come off.

As I said, Batgirls remote attaches itself to the dildo via a wire that is embedded into the base of the toy itself. The cord is not very long since it is expected that you will be clipping the controller onto the harness only a little ways away.

One of the coolest functions of this toy is that the remote is designed to clip onto the strap-on so there is no fumbling around or dropping extra toys or anything in a process that already has more steps than ordinary penis-in-vagina sex. It makes going through the various settings (3 speeds, multiple patterns) super easy while penetrating your partner.

The actual intensity of the vibrator is pretty good. It comes from the middle of the silicone, towards the tip of the toy, which helps make it very quiet. It is not terribly strong. The vibrator uses AAA batteries, which is nice, because most of the toys I have use AA instead and I just can't keep them in the house. The toy is waterproof and didn't show any problems during use or cleaning.

The big thing to remember, as always, is to use silicone friendly lube, specifically water based, or the material will deteriorate. I use some cheap toy cleaner and really hot water to thoroughly clean it. I pay special attention to where the base is attached to the body of the toy. When using this with a strap on, make sure you are using a metal o-ring or you risk the toy slipping out or breaking.

The toy came in a thin cardboard box. It can not be used for long term storage. Batgirl lives in a larger box with the rest of my toys.

This toy came with a silicone face mask and some sample lube and cleaner. The facemask is really small and feels very strange on my face. I don't know that I will ever use it. I haven't tried the lube and cleaner, since there isn't much of it and I know the stuff I already own will do just fine. If this is your first toy of this type, I'd recommend trying the samples and a few other types to find what suits you best.