When I first received the Harness the Pleasure|Harness the pleasure - Double strap harness harness, I immediately tried it on. At first feel, it struck me as a pretty standard two strap harness|Double Strap - two-strap harnesses. The straps are nylon; thick enough to feel very secure when I first put it on but thin enough for me to forget about them once my girlfriend and I got started.

Similarly, the o-ring is connected with simple but sturdy metal snaps, which are easy to undo and redo but stay fastened when you need them to.

Adjusting the harness was a breeze thanks to the plastic clasp on the right side and on either leg, though the harness’s fit could be improved by another clasp on the left side as many other harnesses use.

Although Harness the Pleasure is seriously cheap, it didn’t feel that way thanks to the leather front panel. I appreciated the layer of soft leather between myself and the dildo when I tried wearing this harness around the house for a time. Whether you leave the panel in while fucking or not is a decision each person needs to make for themselves, and this harness allows easy removal and reinsertion of the panel for that reason. I’ve always preferred fucking without it but appreciated the comfort of the leather and found myself reconsidering that preference.

When my girlfriend got home from work, we got to work ourselves with our new toy. She picked out her favorite dildo, a six inch vibrating delight.

A word of advice to beginner strappers: The o-ring that comes with Harness the Pleasure is a two inch metal o-ring. This means that some of the smaller dildos that you may want to use will be too small for it and will shift around in it. Be sure to order an extra o-ring when you get the harness to adjust down in the meantime; you can explore the size queen within sometime in the future.

After some fabulous foreplay, my girlfriend straddled me and slowly sat down on my newly acquired member. We had taken the leather panel out for our first try of Harness the Pleasure, and the first sensation I noticed as she began to ride me was how well I could feel the vibration from the dildo. This was quite the happy surprise.

Despite the vibration, however, that first position didn’t bring me all that much pleasure. I found that my favorite position in which to employ Harness the Pleasure was doggy style, in which I could really feel the dildo’s vibration from start to finish of every thrust. The dildo stayed firmly in place all throughout sex, and the harness was comfortable enough that I forgot about it most of the time.

Another perk that I haven’t explored yet is that Harness the Pleasure comes with extra snaps and straps to turn it into a leg harness|Leg harness: The Fix thigh harness. I can’t wait to try that out.

Although I still love this harness, I’ found that it hasn’t held up to rough sex as well as I would like. The worst feeling is when we hit a rhythm and I (or she) feel the snap release. No, it’s not a huge deal to click it back in, and I give the harness credit for being easy to reconnect, but it can be a bit of a hassle. My revised advice, then, is that this harness continues to be a great buy but, if you anticipate a lot of movement in your sex-life, you might want to choose a different one.