Looks and feels so realistic! The size was just right for my first hands-free experience. I used this baby in the shower until the water ran cold! My only complaint is the suction quality. It came off a few times as I was really getting into things but could be a placement thing because when I changed locations, it was better. It's bendable but sturdy, soft but hard enough for easy insertion and in-and-out action once the suction cup is placed securely. Great, safe "boyfriend" during this pandemic! I haven't noticed any awful "packing" smells or anything either. It's made of silicone and can be cleaned with soap and water. The balls could be a little bigger to enhance the realistic experience, but with the suction cup, that may not be possible, so it's not a loss. Overall a really great experience, and I look forward to the shower time! It's pretty versatile for some doggie-style action, standing or sitting.