The Charmer is a shimmery silicone dildo, designed to effortlessly stimulate the G-spot (or P-spot). It does its job with gusto! The bumps that line one side of the toy rub against your G-spot continuously during thrusting. You don't even have to try to find the right spot to hit, the bumps just hit it while they slide past. It's firm enough to give a decent amount of pressure, yet yielding enough to be easily insertable.

The Charmer also features a flared base, so it can be used anally without the fear of it getting lost in the abyss. The base is supposed to be harness compatible, but it's a little too thin to stay very well in my pillow harness. It is also on the thinner side, so it may be better suited for beginners or those who have issues with girthier toys. I also think this is great for those who do not want to use something phallic.

The Charmer is made of soft silicone, which is safe to share as it can be sterilized by boiling. Silicone is completely non-porous as well.

The texture is slightly velvety, but the consistency reminds me of rubber. It's not really squishy, but when I whip it around propeller-style, it easily yields. It doesn't have a realistic feel when holding it, but it is one of the more realistic sensations I've felt vaginally.

As is standard with silicone, this toy has no taste or odor. It does attract some lint and hair, but this is minimized somewhat by its velvety finish.

This is a very beginner-friendly toy. It's thin, cute, and doesn't look like a big veiny cock.

The charm of this toy is all in its design. Let's face it, it's not especially girthy, it's not overly long, it isn't the firmest toy, but it just doesn't need to be. The feature that makes this magical is the bumps. Those glorious, heaven-sent bumps. They tickle and caress your G-spot in ways you never thought possible from a toy without some serious effort. It doesn't even require a smaller "warm-up" toy because it's flexible and thin enough to be used first. It is long enough to use very easily solo, but would also be really fun to use with a partner.

I also think it's nice this doesn't look like a throbbing penis. I have no problem with phallic toys, but I feel like there are not enough quality options of non-peep toys for those people who either aren't attracted to men, are uncomfortable with having a penis-shaped toy, etc. This is a discreet-looking toy that actually has an interesting texture, which seems like a rarity sometimes.

The Charmer does just what it's supposed to: easily stimulate the G-spot. It may be a one-trick pony, but the trick is impressive enough that it doesn't need to offer much else. It seems like it would work well for anal, especially for men interested in P-spot stimulation. However, the tip is the widest point, so a bit of warm up may be required to insert this toy.

I wish the base were a little more substantial. It seems a little flimsy and thin, and when I used it with a pillow harness, the base folded enough to slip out of the harness. I am not confident it would work with all harnesses because of this.

Because this is just a silicone dildo, care is super easy. Day to day cleaning is as easy as soap and water or a diluted bleach solution. The Charmer can also be sterilized by boiling or taking a ride on the top rack of your dishwasher. Because it collects fuzz, store in a plastic baggy or tin. Only use water-based lubes.

Tantus always makes great packaging. It's not overtly sexual, just a nice clear plastic box. It could easily be used as storage, but personally I find it takes up more room than necessary.

The Charmer gave me my first solo G-spot orgasm. It is my regular go-to dildo, usually making an appearance in every diddle session. If you have never "found" your G-spot or experienced a G-spot orgasm, I would highly suggest starting your exploration with this toy.

When I use this toy, it's a simple process. Drop of lube, insertion, slow then wild thrusting, followed by thigh-shaking, squirty, intense orgasms.