My wife and I purchased this kit as our first harness experiment after watching a DVD suggesting different toy's. We liked this kit because it was highly adjustable, had the vibrating bullet at the top of the harness, and came with two different sized Tantus silicone dildos and two different sized rings to hold the dildos in place.

Using the harness on my wife, we both highly enjoyed the experience. It is easy to put on, and fairly comfortable on me, whether I was partially erect or not. The vibrating bullet at the top sometimes would dig into my pelvis, which was slightly uncomfortable, but only when I would make body on body contact with that part of the harness. The harness stays in place during use, and we have used it multiple times and always with success and satisfaction.

Out of the two dildos, my wife enjoys the larger of the two, but we have been able to use both of them with or without the harness. The dildos are silicone, which means no silicone lube, but they are very easy to clean and will last a long time with proper care. They are just flexible enough that they are comfortable for her but also hard enough so they don't flop around while thrusting.

Cleaning is a breeze, we simply remove the ring and dildo via the four snaps, then we hand wash the pad afterwords. Since the ring is removable, we have also purchased larger rings from Eden Fantasys and a larger Tantus VIP dildo, which also worked well with the harness. For cleaning the dildo and ring afterwords, we just use warm water and standard shower bar soap to clean them off, then dry, and put back into our toy bag for the next use.

Also, even though my wife and I have not tried it personally, I believe a man could wear the harness without the pad, and be able to have double penetration sex with a woman with the dildo and ring resting above his penis.

I still like this set, but we don't use it that often if ever. We bought this a few years ago after having seen something like it in a video. We were just starting our toy collection, and figuring out what we did and didn't like. While we purchased a high quality product, this harness just doesn't get used. It probably has been close to a year since we last used this, and it is still sitting in our closet. We will probably keep this for a while longer, but I wouldn't be surprised if it gets tossed when space becomes an issue. It isn't a question of quality, but that we just don't have a real need for a harness.