For my wife and I this toy was our first for some gender play. We used it with a harness and it fit without a problem. I was a little concerned at first but quickly realized that for beginners it was a good fit. It was not at all intimidating and was quite a change from our regular sex routine. I will say that it felt good when going from the front but from behind it seemed to be a bit small and did not seem long enough to hit the spot. After using it for a while I decided to go to something a bit larger and with some more texture to it. I think I may even try a vibrating bullet with my next one. I suppose it could be used without a harness but I think is best used with one however that depends on how it is being used.


I definately liked the silicone versus other materials like latex as it warms quickly to body temperature and you can't beat the price. The texture was nice but the wavy design was a bit understated. It does have a nice curved shape that I think might work better from behind if it were turned around as it did not it the P-spot very well from that position. This toy was easy to clean and did not hold a smell which was very important because it has to be stored out of sight. Flexibility wise it was fine but I don't know how it would compare to glass or other more rigid types as we don't have these toys.


I plan on keeping it around for a while just to mix things up but I will probably use the larger ones more often. We will definately keep this toy around for future use but overall I would probably recommend this item more for beginners or those who like their toys a bit smaller.