The Radiant gems G-spot harness|Radiant gems G-spot harness isn't just for the G-spot. My wife used it on me. It’s a bit larger than I’m used to, but we eased up to it. Slow and steady was just fine!

We chose this because, hey, it was something different, which is right up our alley. Pulling it out of the box, the first thing I noticed was that there wasn't a strong smell. Bonus! I unfolded the harness, which actually looks intimidating because of the straps, but it isn't. The next thing I noticed was that it seemed fragile. I thought I was going to rip the harness in two just by pulling it out of the box, but I didn't. It is surprisingly strong!

I helped my wife into it and was eager for this new experience. If you are new to harness play, it takes a couple of looks to figure out which strap goes in which d-ring, but it isn't too bad. Like I stated before, the dildo attachment is a little bit bigger than what I am used to, but with a lot of Maximus it was a wonderful experience. The way I leaned over the bed, as she rode me like I rode her so many times, felt incredible. I thought the dildo was going to be too long, but that fear was quick to disappear. Feeling her thrust in and out with this smooth, jelly-like dildo was amazing. There were no sharp edges to contend with. The dildo pushed in nicely. It wasn't so flimsy that you needed to force it to go in, but was swallowed by my begging rear easily. It didn't take long for this to send me over the edge. I’m happy to report that, as soon as I touched my throbbing member, I came with a force that made me shake! All I can say is “Wow!”

When we were all finished, again, I was surprised. The dildo, which didn't even begin to slip off the harness during play, was clean. It is smooth, so there is no place for anything to hide. We removed it from the harness and cleaned it in hot water and anti-bacterial soap. [Editor's note: this dildo is made of Sil-a-gel, which is very porous and can not be sterilized. We recommend using a condom.] We stored it away for the next time!

Being new and naive to harness play, I was hoping that I’d be able to wear this to use on her. This isn't really the type of harness for a man to wear. There is no place to put your penis. It would just be way too uncomfortable. But, hey, you might be into uncomfortable!

I recommend this harness for girl-on-girl play or girl-on-guy play. The materials might not be the strongest in the world, but it is a great price for a beginner’s harness. What a wonderful, new experience to add to my list!

We still use this, although I seem to have more fun taking it off the harness to use on her! The vac-u-lock system dildos have a hole at the base. I stick in a finger and bang away with it! The harness is still in one piece, but still looks fragile. We haven't used it in the water yet, so I still don't have a comment on that one. I still recommend it!