First things first, I love a nice realistic-looking dildo. The Boy in Blue is naturally colored, with realistic-looking veins and a nice curve to it for g-spot stimulation. This toy has a sturdy suction cup, which makes it great for hands-free play, and it can also be used in an o-ring harness.

The Boy in Blue is made of TPR, which I typically consider a high-maintenance material, and I usually try to stay away from it. While TPR is latex and phthalate-free and slightly better than some other toy materials, it is porous, which means cleaning can be a bit more involved, and they can begin to breakdown over time. You’ll want to make sure that when storing a TPR toy that it isn’t touching other toys and that it’s completely dry when put away. As a general rule, I try not to keep TPR toys longer than 9-12 months simply because I take my vaginal health seriously, and TPR can harbor bacteria. After use, I use an antibacterial toy cleaner, I allow it to try completely, and then I apply a light layer of a renewing powder. But just because there is a little more work with TPR, that doesn’t mean there aren’t benefits; TPR is durable, inexpensive, tends to be a bit softer, and more natural feeling plus transmits vibrations very well for toys that buzz.

I purchased this dildo specifically for the size, I wanted something that was closer to a natural and realistic feel, and many of the dildos I already own are quite a bit larger in both length and girth. The Boy in Blue is 6 1/2 inches in length while 5 3/4 inches are insertable, and the circumference is nice and thick at 4 1/2 inches. Overall, I found this dildo to be very comfortable to ride, and it left me feeling full without being uncomfortable. I would consider this a great dildo for a first-timer or someone more experienced looking for something they might find attached to the guy at the end of the bar…or a police car in this case.

One downside to toys with a suction cup is that I don’t have that many surfaces in my house to stick them to, so I typically end up using them in the shower or bath. The Boy in Blue has a sturdy suction cup base, and I was able to easily attach it to the shower wall/floor of the tub without it slipping while thrusting or riding. One of my personal favorite features of this toy is how it is firm and hard like an erect penis but still has some flexibility and give to it, which makes each ride extremely enjoyable.

My most memorable experience with this dildo was my first, it arrived after an unusually stressful workday, and I needed to relax and let some steam out from the day. When I took it out of the packaging, I was initially a little disappointed because it looked much smaller than other realistic dildos that I have purchased, and then I remembered that I specifically purchased The Boy in Blue because it was closer in size to a real penis. I lubed it up with some water-based lubricant, stuck it on the side of the tub, and got to business, and let me tell you…the veins and texture on this dildo are extremely satisfying, plus the curve provides some amazing g-spot stimulation. I was able to have an explosive orgasm a lot easier than I expected, which prompted me to try a few other “positions,” with each being just as enjoyable as the one before.