My partner and I bought this toy as an introduction to strap-on sex. The harness was non-threatening and very easy to use upon first opening the packaging. The dildo that accompanies the set was "non-threatening" to the point of being underwhelming. (We are now searching for a larger dildo to use with the harness that will be a little more exciting). I can see the virtue for the use of this toy on males as an introduction to pegging; for a lesbian relationship, on the other hand, the dildo is just a little too small. My partner was unable to get release from its use, and I was just barely able to.

The harness itself was easy to use and we've encountered no problems with it. The O-ring is entirely sewn in and not interchangeable, which is a little frustrating. It does accommodate toys with a diameter up to 1.5 inches, so that factor is not really too major a problem. It's also machine washable, which is very convenient and I've encountered no problems with washing it at all. Overall, I was pleased with the harness as an introductory one.

The dildo, however, was the half of this kit that fell short both figuratively and literally. It is completely silicone, which is nice because cleaning it was easy and quick. (Remember to only use water-based lube with silicone toys, because silicone-based lube can ruin them). My main problem with this dildo was its size. We knew that it was small when we bought it, but when we took it out of the packaging it was much smaller than I'd expected (even after looking at pictures and the "actual size" function online).

Overall, the experience with the new-comer's kit was positive. We've continued to use it, and are in the process of buying a new dildo to go with it. The harness is definitely something we will continue to use in the future. The biggest caveat about purchasing this product is the dildo's size. For a female, trying this for the first time, its size is entirely underwhelming and even a bit disappointing.