This harness is an all around useful toy. It can be used for women, with women. It can be use with women by men, or for men by women. I used it on my husband and he enjoyed it a little. He is new to the world of gender play or role reversal. The harness is a nylon plastic type material. It is fine not to itchy or scratchy. But if you are a bigger woman, be careful. The harness does not stretch very far. It loosens and tightens but if you need it to loosen a lot this may not be for you. I am a bigger girl and my harness was at the end of its rope as to say. It was a little tight on me but I loved it and loved using and playing with it.

The dildo that comes with is is big, and has a lot of girth to it. I enjoyed having every inch inside of me. It has become my new favorite toy. I can use it with the harness or by itself. My husband can wear the harness or just use the dildo by itself on me. It has a bit of a suction cup on the end so I can use it in the tub, or on the wall.... Many, many uses for the dildo. Freaking love it!!!

The material is a rubber like material. To many it may be a bad feeling but I like it. It is waterproof, and smells fine to me. It does get sticky with lube on it but that comes with almost every toy. The material is very bendable and flexible. It can be used from any direction due to the flexible material. To the hands it feels like a rubber band but once inside of you it feels like a big thick rock hard man. Which works for me! The thickness for guys may be a bit much especially for beginners but once they get use to it it will become a very, very sexual thing. Even for beginning women it may be a bit too thick but patience and time it will be great!

The harness comes in a nylon material, mine was blue and I am sure it comes in many different random colors. The straps are secured by two rings at the ends. It is stitched very well and strong. I pulled on it and tested it when I got mine and it was very strong. The harness is a three point set up, meaning it goes under one leg then the other and connects on the outside of each legs and then once at the waist line. I believe this is one of the better made harnesses for the price. It is slightly adjustable for skinny people. For us bigger people not so adjustable as we would like. It does adjust but if you are too big it won't fit at all. Mine would barely fit but I did get it to fit. The material was stretched and worked and it held up fine which makes me believe the material is great!

The size is perfect for a normal sized girl. The bigger girls may want to be careful on the sizing. It is adjustable but anything bigger than a size 20 may want to think otherwise. It fit me, it was a little tight but it was on there. The straps were at the ends of the line but it was ok. It is a good size for a lot of different people and genders. Anyone can use it, and it stays in place because of the size too.

In my opinion this toy is and worked exactly the way it was suppose to work. The toy stayed in place. Did not have to fidget with it at all. It was very comfortable to wear, almost felt like nothing at all. It was very easy to adjust and readjust. The toy went in and there it stayed. It was not difficult to use at all. The harness is very good at using in different positons, we tried as many as we could.