The Extreme Harness|Extreme harness ended up not being too extreme, which is a good thing.

The boy and I had wanted to try using a harness for awhile. I had previously purchased a beginner one, but the diameter of the O-ring|Rubber ring set - Black Multipurpose Ring Set was much too small, and the dildo packaged with it was much too short. We definitely needed one that would be compatible for other size dildos.

The Extreme Harness is great because it comes with a 1 3/4 inch O-ring, that is interchangeable if you need to go bigger or smaller around. The four snaps surrounding the ring are very easy to undo, but strong enough that it'll help the dildo stay put even under, er, vigorous circumstances.

The nylon straps did feel a little rough at first, but did not chafe or leave marks.  The straps are adjustable for a very wide range of sizes. One downside of the straps was that there are no stops on the ends, like you find on backpacks. They did come undone a couple times, and it was a little difficult to figure out what strap fit in which buckle when it was time to put it back together. That can be a real mood killer.

This can be easily remedied by folding over the ends and running a sewing machine over it so the straps cannot come completely undone from the buckles.

The leather panel in the front was comfortable enough, though it can be removed for added comfort and closeness.

All in all, it felt pretty sturdy when we were going at it, aside from the straps slipping a little bit a few times. The O-Ring held most of the dildos|Strap-on Dildos in our collection, which was awesome. As long as you find a way secure the straps so that everything stays where it belongs, you should be in for a nice long ride.