This harness is definitely for the intermediate users. My wife and I tried this when we first started with anal play and she decided she'd like to try being double penetrated. The dildo included with the harness was a bit intimidating for her since it is 6 inches long and 1 1/4 inches in diameter. In the end (ha - double meaning) everything worked out great but (there it is again) it's something to think about.

The harness itself is made out of nylon straps and steel rings. This is really nice since you can either hand wash it or stuff it in a bag and run it through the washing machine if it somehow gets dirty.

The dildo itself is made out of a smooth, purple silicone so it's very easy to clean. Just use some mild soap, warm water and maybe a specialty toy cleaner and it's ready for the next time you play.

The workmanship on both the dildo and harness seems excellent to me. Mine has been used around a dozen times and it is in the same condition as when we took it out of the box.

I do strongly recommend putting it on a few times before you first use it with your partner as it can be a bit confusing to get all the thin straps on correctly the first time. Even after the number of times I've worn it I still have to turn on the lights to get it on correctly.

I'm a fairly thin guy, 34 inch waist, and it fits me well. I just need to tuck the extra strap material around the waist band so it's not flapping around when I'm thrusting hard & fast. My wife is a bit thicker around the hips than I am, two kids, and we haven't tried it on her yet, but it looks like it should fit her fine when it's her turn to try it out on me.

This harness and dildo combo works great for my wife and I and was well worth the money. It fits well once I get it on and adjusted, the dildo stays in place firmly no matter how hard or fast we go. It's the best toy I've seen for the money to give a couple the option to try out double penetration.

As I mentioned before this was a bit intimidating for my wife the first time we tried it since the included dildo was larger than she expected. Not larger than me, but larger than any of the plugs we had played with before. Once she got used to it and we relaxed it was a great experience which we've come back to again and again.