There's always something on the to-do list, and 'fucking a partner while wearing a harness (and dildo)' has been on the list for five years, ever since I was on the receiving end in a quite delightful sapphic experience. Something that concerned me in my vague hunt for one, though, was finding one that would fit around my hips, arse, and thighs. Well, the Missy-G is no problem there; it's very adjustable, and I could have been considerably fatter and still fit it well.

With a whole afternoon planned to experiment, Medea and I were quite excited.  She helped me to put it on initially. There are leather straps that buckle around each hip and rubber straps curving around each thigh. It's very comfortable, with the central leather triangle sitting quite low on the pubic bone. Of course, it felt weird but not bad weird. Once we were satisfied it fit well, off it came so that we could un-pop the back of the triangle and put our dildo in place (we used a Tantus dildo). There's actually space for two dildos - one for the receiver, and one for yourself - but we thought we'd stick with one for experimentation purposes.

I look hot with a purple cock.

I wore it for an hour or so, tantalising, teasing, and fucking Medea with it. The harness stayed in place well, and Medea told me as she rode me that she couldn't feel the leather at all; just the dildo and me. I could feel it, but in a good way: every time she pressed down on me, the dildo pressed the leather, which in turn pressed into me. It wasn't a deliberate on the clit feeling but an overall pressure that felt really good.  I didn't notice the buckles at all, even lying on my back, which either means they're well designed or I was rather distracted

After Medea had had two shatteringly good orgasms doggy-style, we rested up, and then she wanted to try it out on me.  Medea also looks hot with a purple cock. And I have to say, much though I love having a cock of my own, I liked receiving it a heck of a lot more. Medea also really got into using it, and the harness stayed in place just as well on her smaller frame as it did on mine.

Eventually, we collapsed, very satisfied, and designated the experiment a success and something that must be repeated: with two dildos and in the arse. I think the Missy-G is going to see a lot of use from us.

Incidentally, cleaning post-use is an absolute necessity (I squirted all over the place), but gentle wiping with damp, soapy cloth, drying, and some leather shine oil if you like, will do the job nicely. Don't forget to clean your dildo as well.