I bought this harness with really high expectations, after reading tons of rave reviews and I wound up not being super impressed. Part of that was definitely personal preference. I like a very minimalist harness; basically a couple of straps with an O-ring, and the Spare Parts Joque has way more material. I was hoping that other aspects of the harness would make up for it or that it wouldn't be that noticeable, but I found the material and wide straps to be very distracting and uncomfortable.

The lack of an interchangeable O-ring was also a problem. My partner and I tend to prefer 2"+ cocks and it was really difficult to use this with a Vixskin Outlaw, which is our go-to.

I also had some problems with the fit. While I'd read it was super easy to adjust and get in the right spot, I found that to be pretty untrue. For me, at least, D-rings are way easier, not to mention more comfortable. This may change after more use and washing, but I found the wide hip straps and the Velcro to be really uncomfortable. The leg straps were also surprisingly small (I got the A size).

Points for the machine washable aspect though. After I decided that once was enough and I wasn't likely to use this harness again, I was able to just chuck it in the laundry and give it to a friend, who would appreciate it more. That's definitely easier than the leather harnesses I've tended to use in the past, which require way more upkeep and which I wouldn't really want to share between partners.

If you're not looking for a super minimalist harness and use more moderately sized dildos, this may still be a good buy. The machine washablility alone, definitely makes this a good option I think. I, however, was not that happy with the investment, especially given how many super positive reviews I'd read.