This harness looks and feels like underwear and it absolutely does not disappoint. Made from a cotton/spandex blend, it absolutely doesn't feel like a harness. However, it certainly functions properly as one. I'm primarily comparing this to my previous harness, the Spareparts Joque, which I thought revolutionized strap-on sex. While the Spareparts harness MAY function slightly better (possibly when it comes to heavier dildos), I personally think the Rodeoh is the way to go. It is far more comfortable (I often found the Spareparts Joque pinched or pressed a little uncomfortably at times), easier to wear under clothing, and sexier (they are silky soft, low-cut, and just plain cool-looking).

My girlfriend and I used this with the Spur, our new favorite dildo. I worried that it wouldn't fit right in the fixed O-ring because it is on the smaller end (at 1 1/4" diameter), but it worked perfectly. The dildo was held firmly in place and easily maneuvered. Because of the softness and thinness of the material, I felt like there wasn't much between us, which was great. The O-ring is NOT positioned in a good place for clitoral stimulation of the wearer, which could be a major con for some people (this could probably be easily fixed with a vibrator). Personally this is a small price to pay for me, because what I'm really looking for is a comfortable harness that makes the transition from foreplay to sex as seamless as possible, which the Rodeoh does well.

My only real problem with this harness is that it is cut in such a feminine way. I realize that most harnesses are created with feminine women in mind, and I understand that this is not a con for the vast majority of people. However, I was uncomfortable by how low-cut it was and the way in which it framed by ass (I don't know if this was a sizing issue or not, but it was "cheeky" and didn't cover my whole butt). Butches and ftms may want to consider this when looking at this product. Rodeoh also makes a boxer brief cut harness, which may be better suited to more masculine users, although it isn't widely available yet. The concept of the Rodeoh, however, is totally a step in the right direction for me and I still love this harness.