The "New comers strap-on kit" is the first strap-on harness my partner and I ever purchased. Prior to purchasing it, heck, prior to our relationship, I dreamed of being pegged. My partner then went out and purchased this kit, because of it's price. At the time, we were both barely 18 and we both had very little money, and when we would look at strap on harnesses, it seemed like we wouldn't be getting into that stuff anytime soon, because they were priced way out of our price range. When we discovered this kit, it didn't matter if it was good or bad, it was simply "affordable."

The harness is made of a nice nylon material, which is rather soft to the touch. During some of our long, "intimate" moments, it has rarely chafed either of us, and rarely ever made us feel uncomfortable - and we're talking about time frames over an hour! That's not to say it never happens. My partner has definitely felt some bad chafing from using the harness hard and long, but it's a rare occurrence (it may relate more to how rough we are, versus anything wrong with the product). Another thing to note about the harness is it's ability to accommodate people of various sizes. My lover is fairly small, short and not very fat, and it fits her perfect; where as, I'm over six foot tall, have very wide hips, and it fits me also. The "O" ring/dildo holder is not removable, so if you can't use a dildo with a diameter more than one and a half inches (1 1/2").

The included silicone dildo (don't use silicone lube!) is one a very cute color of purple, but it's length of five inches (5") is also what helps it seem "cute." It is pretty small, honestly. Our first time around though? It was perfect! However, the "perfection" luster wears off incredibly fast. It feels good to me sliding in and out, but it just doesn't hit the top of the pleasure meter for me, unless we're having very rough sex with it. It also has the habit of slipping out A LOT, presumably because of the little amount there is to work with. That being said, it still has it's uses! I've used this dildo to pleasure my partner a few times, and it has worked perfect due to her small size. Meaning: if you're small, you might enjoy this far more than I did. I have also used this for oral numerous times and, oddly enough, the dildo tastes far better than you'd expect a dildo to taste. It's not super duper tasty or anything, but it's certainly better than some sex toys I have put in that orifice.

Cleaning is rather simplistic. We put the harness in a garment bag and just wash it in the washer. We have never tried putting it in a dryer; I'm unsure if that would be safe, anyways. As for cleaning the dildo, I've always just used hot water and soap. I've been told that the dildo is dishwasher safe, but I haven't tried such, because I don't really like the idea of putting a sex toy in the dishwasher.

Too conclude, the "New comers strap-on kit" is perfect for it's namesake: new comers. Though the harness is really nice, the dildo isn't about to be used by people who are experienced in this field already.