This harness was designed to be worn by a woman so she can use her pelvis to thrust a Vac U Lock dildo. Being a heterosexual married couple, we ordered this harness set for the purpose of pegging (which is when the woman uses a harness and dildo to engage in anal sex with a man). This was the first harness we ever used and we were really satisfied. The dildo is probably not best for someone exploring anal play for the very first time but if you have used plugs or smaller anal vibrators or dildos, this is a nice step up. The name implies that this is designed for G Spot play but it worked rather well on the prostate. As far as a man wearing it, I did not try it simply because it did seem to allow space for the penis.

The harness is mad of PVC plastic and is expandable up to 44". My wife is a size 8-10 and it fit around her waist nicely with plenty of room to spare. As you can tell from the picture the harness is transparent which for us t was a big plus. The look was amazing and it was not intimidating as I had feared. The dildo itself is made of sil-a-gel which is supposed to be an anti bacterial jelly like substance. Still, I would recommend using a condom if using this anally if for nothing else but easy clean up. I would not recommend sharing this toy. The great thing about the material is that it is both soft and firm. It is not so firm that it is uncomfortable but it is not so soft that insertion is difficult. While it may not be quite as soft and I would prefer I found that it was a great combination of firmness and comfort. Also, the whole set is waterproof so it could also be used for shower fun!!!

There are two things to think about when purchasing this set. First, consider the type of harness this is. It is made of PVC plastic which means it is a great inexpensive option for first timers but it may not be as comfortable as a plush or leather harness. My wife did say the plastic straps cut into her skin a little while she was putting it on for the first time but once she began to use it she was surprised at how comfortable it was. The straps are good quality plastic and we really liked that they were clear, it made the whole look of her wearing very attractive and feminine. The other issue to consider is that this uses the Doc Johnson's Vac U Lock system rather than the universal O ring. A major complaint from some has been the lack of non-life like dildos for the Vac U Lock line but Doc Johnson has made several non-threatening dildos. This was a major point for us since this toy would be used on me and I had no desire to see my wife with a life like penis. This looked very feminine and she even mentioned that she specifically liked the color. I was very happy with the Vac U Lock as far as keeping the dildo in place. We tried several positions and were very enthusiastic in our use of the toy and it never moved an inch. I have never used an O ring harness so I cannot compare the two but I can say that the Vac U Lock performed perfectly.

As mentioned earlier the size of the harness is adjustable up to 44" according to the manufacturer. If is a jock style harness which means there is a waist strap and two straps that connect around the thighs, just like a men's jock strap. It fit very nicely and was very comfortable. The size of the dildo was just about perfect for me personally. It begins at 1" and expands to 1 1/2". The insertable length is 6 1/2". I would not have wanted it any shorter. Not because I needed all that length inside me, but rather because having that much length allowed for more and easier thrusting on my wife's part. Many of the so called beginner's harness/dildo sets come with much shorter dildos making penetration and thrusting more difficult and uncomfortable. As a beginner pegger, the 1 1/2" base was about all I could handle at this time. More experienced users may want a larger dildo, but beginner's to intermediate user's should be satisfied with the Radiant Gems G-Spot Dildo.

In my opinion this harness and dildo performed beyond my expectation. The harness was very comfortable and looked great. The Vac U Lock system held the dildo in place perfectly. We tried several positions trying to get the best angle but because the dildo naturally tilted down there were some difficulties. This was remedied by my wife placing her fingers between herself and the dildo and pointing it up. This was more comfortable for both of us and made the experience more pleasurable. Overall, this toy performs above its price range and would be a great way to take the next step in anal play.

Please remember that even though this toy claims to be antibacterial it is still porous and can hold bacteria. I highly recommend using a condom and not sharing this toy.

The set came in a simple black box with a picture of the harness being worn by a mannequin's torso. It was not intimidating. There was a color brochure explaining how to use the Vac U Lock system and the back side showed pictures of both life like and non-life like dildos.