I think this is an ok harness, not the greatest nor the worst. We had recently relocated, and once I began unpacking, I quickly realized my toy box was not there. I am a thicker sized bisexual female. We have a girlfriend and she was coming in from out of state for her birthday. So, that meant I needed a new harness ASAP. A friend had recommended this one, so I decided to try it.

I have been using them for a few years as I am bisexual, and was excited to try this one. It is adjustable, but the way it sits across you, it is not a good choice for someone wide in the hips, like I am. I had tried the Bare as You Dare on as soon as it arrived, only to discover the fit was not exactly right. With her flying in the next day, there was no way I could return it and get another. The place we had moved to was kinda of uptight and the nearest store was over 2 hours away. Toy store, that is. I didn't want to disappoint her, so I used the Bare as You Dare even though it was a little to snug. I think it is great for someone starting out. This would be great for a slimmer sized beginner, and it is easy to set up.

I do not recommend it for the more advanced. I had it on about an hour, using it with a 8 inch silicone dildo. While switching up between using it and watching my husband, I had to remove it because of chaffing and rubbing, which kind of took me out the mood. My husband and girlfriend continued on for the evening, which is fine, but a little disappointing to me.