This little guy is not small and, for some, could border on being too big. The weight and feels are solid in your hand. It has just enough flex to be comfortable inserting it while providing that rock-hard cock feeling - a perfect balance. Silicone safe and cleans easily. The glow in the dark feature is a cool novelty. Just expose it to light prior to use. My wife loves the feel and begs for harder and faster thrusts. We haven't traveled with it because of its size, so it is our stay-at-home go-to toy. The suction cup never let's go. In fact, it works so well; it takes some effort to remove it. Stick it on the shower wall and have no hesitation going to town. Oh, it works great in a harness too.