The Boss arrived in a minimal amount of plastic and cardboard. It had no images, no gaudy descriptions, and no excessiveness. It had just the product protected from dust and grime in a simple package for shipping purposes. So far, so good. Tantus toys are pleasing the environmentalist and the feminist in me.

This toy is designed to be used on its own or in a harness. It can be used vaginally to hit the G-spot or anally to hit that P-spot. I've only tested the Boss out vaginally without a harness, but I will definitely get a little anal with it and report back in a follow up review. For now, this review will be concerned with how the Boss performs on his own.

Remember: the Boss can be used for anal play only because of his flared base. If you are choosing toys for anal play, make sure they have something to stop them from disappearing!

The Boss is made by Tantus who are known for their dedication to quality and safety with their toys. They live up to that reputation with the Boss. Made of pure silicone, this toy just feels better than those made from lesser quality materials. It is strong, sturdy, smooth, and completely scent-free.

As strong and firm as the Boss is, there is still a little bit of 'give', which replicates the 'give' in an erect penis well enough for my liking. He is also very flexible at his base, and unlike a cheaper material, I am not concerned about the Boss splitting or cracking with that flexibility. It is, however, designed to sit with the curve, and it will bounce back to that angle instantly no matter how straight you try and hold it!

With 5 1/2" of insertable length and a massive 5 1/4" girth, the Boss hits deep and hard. This may be too much for some, and for anyone who isn't 100% okay with that type of penetration depth and girth, I suggest you take things slowly with the Boss. He could take a little while to get used to!

Being made of 100% pure silicone, the Boss ticks all the boxes. He is:
- Able to be cleaned with water or alcohol, and is also dishwasher-safe,
- Able to be boiled, bleached, and sterilized so he can be shared, and is
- Non-porous, hypo-allergenic, latex-free, and phthalates-free, so he can be used uncovered.

I loved the Boss. I enjoyed simulating a blow job on it for my partner and then alternating between the Boss and my partner's cock. I attempted to 'blow' both at once, but my mouth is a little out of practice there, and my jaw locked up. The neutral-tasting silicone makes sucking on the Boss quite pleasant (and it's safe to do uncovered - yay!).

My partner really enjoyed using this dildo on me. The girth seemed to excite him quite a lot. He was able to hit my g-spot with an ease and skill I had not experienced with him before. There is a lot to be said for the curve of this toy; Tantus have got it just right.

Feeling the balls at the base of the toy was like feeling the real thing. If you enjoy the feeling of a man's balls slapping up against you while you are penetrated, I suspect you'll love the way the Boss does replicates that. My partner also rubbed the head of the Boss against my clitoris and the smoothness and shape of it sent me wild.

The weight of the Boss (1lb), in combination with the curve, meant that he stayed put and was easy to handle for both myself and my partner. The flared base allows for a great grip. Even though this toy can be used with a harness, it certainly doesn't have to be.


The only negative factor of the entire experience were the ridges on the head of the Boss. They are fairly prominent and when on the wrong angle 'pulled' against my pubic bone. Which was rather painful. A slight angle adjustment fixed this for me, and whilst I can certainly withstand a little pain and discomfort, this may be a dealbreaker for those who are more sensitive to a sharp pain.

On the whole: I came like a trooper, screamed like a banshee, and didn't want to ever stop being penetrated by the Boss.

This toy is still in good condition and has had a little p-spot action since my first review. It's a decent sized toy, so may not be for beginners to anal play, but with a little silicone-safe hybrid lubricant, this has been a nice dildo to use whilst pegging my partner. Like with my g-spot, the curve and design of this toy is excellent at hitting the right spot without too much effort. It's still a little harder than I always want my silicone dildos to be, but if you can take the Boss, then you'll have a whole lot of fun!