The bend over for beginners kit is a simply perfect toy for first timers, "beginners" and people that prefer smaller toys for anal penetration. I had a very difficult time coming up with any con's for this harness. My fiance and I really love using this product.

The two dildos are made of soft, smooth silicone. The only down side to this is that they attract dust, dirt and everything else (my only negative), this isn't a problem though because they are easily cleaned. Because they are made of silicone they hold heat very well and this adds a lot to the pleasure. You can soak it in hot water to bring up to a nice warm temperature! Silicone is non-porous and can be boiled for sanitation or even thrown into the dishwasher! The only down side to silicone is that you can only use water based lubricants with it. I prefer water based lubricants and so this hasn't proven to be an issue for us. When trying it on my fiancee for the first time we used the smaller dildo, which is only 4.5 inches long and very thin and it didn't disappoint they are angled slightly and so they hit just the right spot without overwhelming him.

The kit came with two interchangeable rubber rings, these are easily replaced if they get lost or broken. We have yet to have any issues with the dildos slipping out of the rings. We have also been able to use some of our other larger dildos with this harness with no issues.

The harness is very well made and it is easily adjustable. I am very tiny and so we cut the straps to the right length so they weren't hanging to the floor. It is very comfortable and looks extremely feminine and sexy. The purple velvet is very attractive. We have also used it without the purple cushioning for a more raw and rough look and feel. This can also allow him to wear it with some slight adjustment of the straps! My fiancee loves when I wear it and loves the lift it gives to my bottom! The velvet and straps are very soft on your skin and don't chaff or cause irritation even with prolonged thrusting.

There is pocket in the velvet for a mini-micro vibe. The mini sends light vibrations through the entire shaft of the dildo and they also provide pleasant stimulation for the wearer. If you push it down into the pocket further you get closer contact and better stimulation. It doesn't bother me that their isn't heavy vibration because this toy isn't about that.

This toy overall is a really great purchase that I would recommend to everyone!