My girlfriend and I use this toy with a double strap harness and have not had any issues at all with several different positions. I have also used it as a vibrator. You can use it with the bullet that it comes with or exchange the bullet out for a different one.

This toy has a very soft and slightly squishy outer layer over a hard interior, which gives it the perfect amount of resistance and yield.

The size of this dildo is perfect for me. I am a petite girl who cannot take a lot of length, but I want width, and that is exactly what this dildo has. It is only about 5 inches long, which works well because my girlfriend and I can do many different position without her ever hitting my cervix, but it is definitely has enough diameter that it isn't anything to laugh at... maybe moan, though.

The length and width are one of the best features of this dildo, although the bullet that it comes with is pretty amazing, too. It definitely has enough power to get the job done. It is also quiet enough that you hardly notice the noise.

My girl and I don't use lubes, so I am not much help there, although I can't imagine that there would be any issues. I use the Eden cleaning wipes on it, as well as remove the bullet and wash it with cleaner, and I haven't had any issues.