The idea of reversing our roles in bed had always excited me. My boyfriend gently suggested we get a harness and I was completely excited about the idea. After much hunting, I decided I wanted a harness from Outlaw Leather|Double strap harness by Outlaw Leather. Why? Because the harnesses are designed to have the dildo on the outside and a special area in the inside so the wearer can use a dildo as well!

The Annie-O arrived in a simple plastic bag, a nice change from bulky packaging with half nude women on the front. It was in a cute velvet drawstring bag that matches the back of the harness. There is a small instruction card demonstrating how the two dildos fit into the harness. All additional instructions can be found on the company’s website. I unsnapped everything, removed the rings (it has a 2” rubber and 2” metal ring included), washed it with a little antibacterial soap, and hung it out to dry overnight. Once it was dry I used a leather conditioner to help preserve the harness.

Onto the fun! Before my partner came over, I adjusted the harness to where I would feel comfortable. The easiest way I found to do this was to loosen the thigh straps further than what you will need, step in, adjust the buckles, and then adjust the thigh straps. Once I had everything where I wanted it, I unbuckled ONE of the buckles, stepped out of the harness, and used a silver sharpie to mark the inside of the leather on which hole I would need it at. The lace-up on the back could be used for fine tuning. This would probably be much easier to do with a partner. Once you have the perfect fit, the straps can easily be cut to length. I was surprised at how sexy the harness is on. It sits very, very low on the hips. I have 41” hips and this fit very nicely, the harness should fit most people up to 54” waist.

There is an inner flap that unbuttons so you can position a single dildo and a second dildo for the wearer or a double dildo|Double Dildos. The dildos do touch when they are in the harness, so I put a piece of cloth between mine because they are both silicone and didn’t want to risk interactions. We tried a variety of positions and each worked very well! The harness did not slip at all and the dildo that was inside me would rock slightly every time I thrust into him. The outer dildo we used vibrated and because the base was right against my clit, I quickly came. My favorite position, him on top, did provide some discomfort for me because the buckles dug into my back when we were on a hard surface. Being on a bed or blanket helped relieve this.

Because leather cannot be sterilized, it would be best not to share your harness. I clean mine with a baby wipe after every use and will probably wash it every once in awhile. Leather does soften over time, which should only add to the experience!

Everything cannot be perfect, but the Annie-O comes pretty darn close. There was initial shedding where little black bits ended up all over my bed when I originally took it out of the package. Washing this removed most of the problem, though I did have a few stray pieces on the dildo. This harness is well constructed and absolutely gorgeous. I’m very happy with it and even happier with the fact that I too can enjoy using it because of the ability to have an inner dildo. I highly recommend Outlaw harnesses and particularly the Annie-O! I’m sure both my boyfriend and I will continue to enjoy using this!

After practicing my thrusting (as someone who does not have a penis, I felt it necessary!) and fine tuning the adjustment of the harness, I was ready to show my partner our new toy. He complimented how sexy it was, particular the small details. The small star on the front and the lace up over the red suede on the back were very nice touches.

The harness worked well in variety of positions. My personal favorite was him on top of me! This was definitely a very sexy role reversal. I clenched my legs together, so the dildo inside of me moved against my g-spot perfectly and the vibrator from his dildo hit my clit every time he thrust down on me. He also enjoyed this position because he could control the depth, angle, and pace of penetration. It also helps that my hands were freed up and I could use them to pleasure him. I’m sure we’ll continue to find new positions for this and I look forward to it!