When my now-wife and I first started dating, I had never used a harness before. The straps and the hardcore leather appearance of most harnesses really daunted me and I was afraid of buying a harness and finding out that it didn't fit my luscious size 18-20 hips. After hemming and hawing about whether we wanted to even attempt the strap-on sex, we decided to go with the Terra Firm Dee Harness. We liked the soft leather and the fact that it fits up to 40" hips.

Upon receiving the harness we eagerly opened the package. We were happy that the leather was even softer than it looked. It was a little daunting to try and put on and adjust the first time, but this was because we had never used a harness before. It did take a bit of work to adjust all the straps and there were a few moments when it seemed like we were never going to figure this out. But once we wrapped our heads around how the harness was supposed to fit, it was relatively simple to adjust. The leather felt as soft on my hips and thighs as I could have hoped and even after wearing it under clothing for several hours, it was still comfortable.

The Terra Firma comes with one O-ring. While it worked with one of our dildos, we found that we needed a smaller one for our dildos with smaller bases. Lets just say that after some very enthusiastic fucking, we ended up having to send out a search party for our missing-in-action dildo. I would recommend anyone buying this harness to also purchase an additional package of O-rings to accommodate any larger dildos or dildos with smaller bases.

Care for the Terra Firma harness is relatively easy. We wipe it off with a damp cloth and dry it before storing. We've had the Terra Firma for about four years and it is still going strong. The snaps holding the O-ring on have tarnished but they still work, something which continues to surprise. I am very, very pleased at how long the Terra Firma harness has lasted.

The only other words of caution I offer to potential buyers is about taking it apart. All of the straps are removable and the few times we have completely disassembled the harness, it has taken us a good long while to put it back together. Though, the individual leather straps do make for a nice make-shift whip, even if that is not the intended use.

The final verdict on the Terra Firma harness is that it is well worth the money. Between the comfort of the leather and ease of wearing and adjusting, its hard to find any flaw with this harness. Even with the most enthusiastic of sex, the Terra Firma harness remained secure and snug. Add to all this the reasonable price and the generous size of the adjustable straps (fits my size 18-20 self) and there almost doesn't seem to be a reason not to buy it.