This harness works great with a male on the receiving end. This harness CAN be used for beginners/advanced users because you can just swap out the dildo for a bigger one. I personally like the included dildo the best -- just shoving that up my behind feels AMAZING!! It looks small at first, but trust me, it's big enough.

You know, it's a harness. For pegging, there is never a perfectly "tight" harness. This one is well made though and very much enjoyable. It is pricey, but still the cheapest you are going to get for a beginners kit. I can't stress to you how easy it is to use. The harness O-ring holds the toy decently well, so I can't complain, but it's not perfect. It works best in the doggy position, although missionary is possible.

It is machine-washable! Cleaning it is a bit of a pain because the material holding the dildo in is polyester, so unless you're just happy cleaning the dildo, you'll need to wash the harness as well. It depends on how much lube is used as well.