I am of course writing this from my perspective. As a trans-man or butch who packs, I obviously saw this little gem as a necessity. WOW!!! It is great for soft packing, and not just with the Mr. Right, but just about any and all soft packs out there. So just that right there, is a huge plus. Yes, it works BEST with the Mr. Right. But over all, there is success with most soft packs. I have the Mr. Right. I have the one from Good Vibrations known only as the soft pack, which is not a perfect fit, but can still be used with it. I have the David from another site (do not remember) and it also worked well with it.

The surprise came when I (for shits and giggles) tried it with a hard pack during intercourse. Holy heck, it was AMAZING. Being short (5'6") and being attracted to taller women, most harnesses that strap at the hips and around the thighs do not allow for many positions with out constant slipping out, or a lot of trial and error. This one was no problem. Simply slide the band up to the waist, and it is perfect! There are not a lot of straps to readjust and such. So, that was a pleasant surprise and totally worth it for the money.

The only down side I did find is that the back leather, that houses the balls, eventually slides behind so it does not sit in front at all times like in the diagram. This is especially true when going from sitting down to standing up. The elastic and the leather backing eventually do start to stain the packer black. It also could benefit from a small "o" ring attachment for the actual shaft so that it does not "flip" forward with the weight of it.

So, this is a true story between me and my girlfriend at the time. Keep in mind what I said about heights and such above.

GF: "Baby, maybe with this one, we can try doggy style?"
Me: "Sure, can't hurt right?"
GF: "Well, I hope it does, but yeah, I get what you're saying."
We laugh. We have sex and try it doggy style, something we do with each harness and strap-on we buy. She is about to orgasm and what does she scream out?...
" Fuck, I love this thing (meaning the harness)!"
This is a story for those of you out there doubting the hard packing aspect of it.

It is still a very comfortable everyday packer, especially for a soft pack, but it can and does work for most hard packs. It can be used for actual play, and it works as well as a chest harness, which is something I just recently discovered. As bad as this may sound, I took a hint from Alton Brown and decided to see it this packing strap could be a "multi-purpose" and, to my delight, it can be.