Being in a lesbian relationship, we felt limited in what we could do in the sack. Finally, we decided on getting a strap on (Sophia's Red Rider Strap On) and seeing where it took us. We decided on this one because of the price mainly. It is definitely well worth the money I paid for it when compared to other harnesses. I didn't want to pay a lot for our first one, but after receiving it and using it on many occasions I don't see the need to spend any more money on a "better" one, this one works great.

Its so easy to use and fits both of us great even though we are very different shapes. The curved dildo takes some getting used to but the versatile O-ring means that you can buy different styles of dildos to use with the harness. Its very comfortable to wear and easy to use. Clean up is easy. I use a personal product cleaner and it works fine. but you can also use warm water and antibacterial soap. I love using the dildo with or without the harness which makes it very versatile. It can be used alone with just the dildo or with a partner with the dildo or the harness. Lubricant is important in the comfortable use of almost any sex toy that is inserted into the body and the PVC material of this one allows for the use of water or silicone based lubricants.

Having a strap on adds to our pleasure on both ends, it helps us to engage in more kinky things in the bedroom such as role playing and some light bondage that would otherwise be hard to accomplish, as well as little things like kissing during sex and being face to face with your partner. Both me and my partner have had a chance to use it and it makes for an exciting night every time.