Harnesses tend to be pretty tough in my opinion. It’s a leather piece designed to hold a dildo so you can fuck your partner. Usually they are made of black leather and tend to have silver colored closures and o-rings. All of this can be said of the La Femme harness but they’ve managed to make this harness not only high quality, but extremely feminine.

The La Femme harness feels like a high quality piece immediately out of the packaging. With a soft, but sturdy leather, you know this should last a lifetime if cared for properly. The pink trim on the edges is actually a zipper edge, so no worries about it not lasting. The black ruffles are strongly sewn on and are made of the softest leather I’ve ever felt. The pink bows on the back straps are also very soft, so no worries about discomfort in any position. Because the ruffles are a bit prominent, it doesn’t hide very well under a close fitting outfit.

The two metal o-rings that are included can accommodate dildos 1-1/2” to 1-3/4”. I can easily fit my own 2” metal o-ring in as well; which is helpful, especially if you use thicker dildos. As this can be adjusted to sit low on the hips, a double dildo can be used, though I find it a bit awkward at times because it isn’t specifically cut for that type of application.

As far as fit goes, the harness has an upper hip circumference of 46”. I have 41” hips and I have quite a bit of room to spare. The leg straps allow me to adjust this so it sits extremely low on my hips, another definite plus. Both the hip straps and the leg straps have very secure buckles that are easy to use if putting the harness on alone or with help.

A harness this beautiful should definitely be taken care of. Leather cannot be entirely sanitized - so keep that in mind especially if you want to share this. Clean it with leather cleaner and follow up with a leather conditioner. If there are spots that need a more thorough cleaning, a small amount of 70% isopropyl alcohol can be used.