So, this Vac-U-Lock Male Set takes a while to get on, or should I say get "in". Make sure to use lots of lube when trying to get the plug in your ass! I have to admit, that even for the more experienced anal pleasure receivers, the butt plug seems a bit large (but it might also be the material?). Once it is in, the plug feels WONDERFUL — particularly when you are using the strap-on and going to town on your partner at the same time.

Even with my wife's help, I was unable to snap the opening close around my balls and shaft. I tried and tried, but had to leave the fastener unsnapped. I'm probably a little thicker than average, but not much! Keep this in mind if you are slightly more well-endowed!

As for the strap-on dildo, my wife found it too limp and she didn't enjoy the texture. She enjoys the much firmer attachment that we bought separately.

With the amount of time to get this set ready, and also the disappointment that it doesn't fit around my manhood, we rarely use it. But when we do, my prostate is pleasured by every thrust into my wife.

I also find that the anal plug is a bit hard to keep clean; no matter how well I clean it, it just doesn't seem clean. I've started to use a condom when I do use the plug so that I can avoid trying to keep it clean, and it helps with insertion too.

We were hoping to use this set for double penetration; my dick in one hole along with the strap-on. But the fake balls on the dildo of this set get in the way and make it very uncomfortable for the male. Our other attachments make that a little more manageable.

The benefit of a strap-on in our relationship is to get my wife going before I finish her off myself. The strap-on helps get my wife's juices flowing ahead of time before the finale. She ... Ummm ... takes a bit more time to get off than I do.