The Bend Over Intermediate Kit comes with a harness, a large and a small silicone dildo with two o-rings sized to the two dildos, and a bullet vibrator. The harness straps are durable nylon with plastic buckles for size adjustments and metal snaps to hold the O-ring. The center part of the harness, where the straps converge and where the dildo is seated, is covered with a fabric similar to velvet. All components are comfortable against the skin.

My main concern when buying this kit was whether a man could wear the harness but this was not a problem. The velvety pad sits right over a flaccid penis, with no pinching, crushing, or other discomfort.

It takes a moment or two to switch dildos, but that may be partly due to my clumsiness with the snaps. The harness itself slips on quickly and is easily adjusted to a wide range of sizes. The harness fits comfortably, and it does not move around even during the most vigorous thrusting. The harness holds the dildo in a normal orientation, so our bodies fit together in a way that feels natural.

The smaller dildo is obviously too small for vaginal use, but my partner was happy with how the larger dildo filled her up. We are looking forward to trying dildos with different shapes and more textures, which can be interchanged in the harness.

We did not try the harness for anal intercourse or pegging. With their wide base, the dildos can be used anally without the harness, and their smooth texture means they go in comfortably. The silicone material does not pick up any odors.

Cleanup of the two silicone dildos and O-rings is very easy with soap and water. The nylon straps wipe clean with a damp cloth. The velvety pad can go into the washing machine.

Lastly, remember, do not use silicone lube with this product.

I'd never used a harness before, but having suffered with ED, I wanted to try something so my wife could experience intercourse. It was also her first experience with a harness and dildo. We were both completely pleased with the performance of this product.